This week we will discuss consent, consent violations, and consensual non-consent, scene names and how to keep yourself/identity protected, as well as… Kinky Question of The Day Next week’s topics: Poly, mono-poly, and navigating the scene as a non-poly person Consent linksConsent & BDSM: The State of Law
This week we will dive straight into understanding subspace, subdrop and the importance of aftercare/aftercare techniques as well as… Identifying and establishing hard and soft limits Kinky Question of The Day Next week’s topics: Consent violation and maintaining privacy while in the scene
This episode covers different kinky roles and good places on the web to meet fellow kinksters, different kinky roles and their distinctions, and also… Where are the best places on the web to meet fellow kinksters Kinky Question of The Day Next week’s topics: Subspace, sub drop and aftercare, hard and soft limits and how … [Read more…]
Join me on my very first episode of From Mundane To Mistress (FMTM) as I introduce you to the 50 Shades Effect, staying safe in your local community and also… Difference between being kinky or just being freaky? Kinky Question of The Day Next week’s topics: Various kink roles and places around the web to … [Read more…]
I don’t usually make any big mistakes as a dominant, that’s not to say I still don’t have areas to improve in, I just mean I’m usually on top (no pun intended) of things I do. A couple of weeks ago the boy, who in this new year shall be referred to as Locs, attended a … [Read more…]
I love kink but I’m not in love with kink…not anymore at least. I’m sure that feeling will come back in time but for now, I just feel sort of “meh” about the whole thing. My friends on the other hand—well that’s a different story. I’ve noticed that when I meet people who were recently … [Read more…]
When do you get rest and relaxation in the scene when you’re searching for someone? As a dominant I often hold my breath after meeting someone new and taking them into my life. I never know if it will work out, what struggles we’ll encounter, or how we’ll actually mesh up together once we bring … [Read more…]
I’ve often noted that many woman get away with what I deem ‘too much‘, or in actuality ‘not enough‘ at all and men still put up with it! I know countless women who withhold sex until they get their way (usually over something trivial), only perform blowjobs on “special occasions”, shutter at the mere thought … [Read more…]
Recently a guy told me that he was giving up BDSM after his first experience with me because I didn’t provide him with what he deemed an enticing encounter (i.e. I wouldn’t have sex with him). Now I don’t know which is more pathetic, the fact that he so haphazardly (and falsely in my opinion) … [Read more…]
