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Aftercare: Not just an afterthought

January 15, 2015 by d20domme 2 Comments

I don’t usually make any big mistakes as a dominant, that’s not to say I still don’t have  areas to improve in, I just mean I’m usually on top (no pun intended) of things I do. A couple of weeks ago the boy, who in this new year shall be referred to as Locs, attended a … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Relationships Tagged: Aftercare, bdsm, bondage, protocol, questions, relationships, rope, shibari

Lips like morphine

April 25, 2012 by d20domme Leave a Comment

I love kink but I’m not in love with kink…not anymore at least. I’m sure that feeling will come back in time but for now, I just feel sort of “meh” about the whole thing. My friends on the other hand—well that’s a different story. I’ve noticed that when I meet people who were recently … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, community, female domination, male submission, questions, thinking

It’s not me, it’s you

March 28, 2012 by d20domme 4 Comments

When do you get rest and relaxation in the scene when you’re searching for someone? As a dominant I often hold my breath after meeting someone new and taking them into my life. I never know if it will work out, what struggles we’ll encounter, or how we’ll actually mesh up together once we bring … [Read more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, break-up, decisions, end, FemDom, mr dickless, obedience, perspective, questions, topping from the bottom, trust

Innocent until proven kinky

January 21, 2011 by d20domme 2 Comments

I’ve often noted that many woman get away with what I deem ‘too much‘, or in actuality ‘not enough‘ at all and men still put up with it! I know countless women who withhold sex until they get their way (usually over something trivial), only perform blowjobs on “special occasions”, shutter at the mere thought … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal Tagged: .com, acceptance, bdsm, choosing, Craigslist, ideas, questions, repression, self-reflection, thinking, traits, want

Rant: Why so serious?

December 14, 2010 by d20domme 8 Comments

Recently a guy told me that he was giving up BDSM after his first experience with me because I didn’t provide him with what he deemed an enticing encounter (i.e. I wouldn’t have sex with him). Now I don’t know which is more pathetic, the fact that he so haphazardly (and falsely in my opinion) … [Read more…]

Posted in: Rants, Thoughts Tagged: acceptance, bdsm, enjoy, ideas, nurse sub, questions, rant

Breasts, can’t live with them….or can you?

November 30, 2010 by d20domme 4 Comments

I’ve nicknamed my breasts “Thelma & Louise” (bet you can’t guess which is which!) because these girls are always getting me in trouble. When I first started to “develop” I was big into sports and soccer was a favorite of mine. I was the short, wide-shouldered girl who played defense and was nicknamed “The Wall”. … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Thoughts Tagged: breasts, decisions, family, life, questions, ramblings, thinking

Getting to know you

October 19, 2010 by d20domme 3 Comments

With a little under two weeks left for my sub-hunt things have started to pick up a bit. I am definitely interacting with more submissives on and offline than ever before. Is it wrong to feel fucking womanly knowing I am chatting with at least seven twelve fourteen different potentials? All this exploration now has … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: affection, boundaries, dating, friends, nurse sub, objectification, play, questions, thinking, vanilla

Know thyself

November 19, 2009 by d20domme 3 Comments

Life’s been busy and honestly I have been trying to put my gripes on the back burner but it has been hard. In the last entry I received some very thought provoking comments. One in particular from Ferns really caught my attention. She stated: “Another thought… I see that he said he didn’t want ‘BDSM’ … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: arguments, bdsm, life, love, questions, relationship, sad, thinking, unhappy

slave Vs. Boyfriend

October 20, 2009 by d20domme 5 Comments

The epic theoretical battle that I’ve been fighting with in my head for a couple of months. If the two were liquids, they’d be oil and water. They are not meshing well. Each has their own pros and their own cons. The Boyfriend: The traditional beau. He’ll woo you until he gets you (or gets … [Read more…]

Posted in: Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, bf, female domination, questions, relationships, slave, submission
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