Happy new year all! Much like a bucket list, an itch list is a list that helps you track, fantasize about, and set goals of experiences or things you’re ‘itching’ to do. I always have a kinky one running in the background of my life at all times so I thought I’d share. Here’s my … [Read more…]
Over the years there have been kinks that I wholeheartedly threw myself into and absolutely hated (bootblacking). There’s ones I was sure I would loathe but ended up loving (spitting) and there are some that just wormed their way through my kinky cracks, like ASMR that I haven’t been able to stop being fascinated with. … [Read more…]
One cheerleader dressed in pink. Check. One cheerleader dressed in blue? Check. One referee to oversea it all? I looked down at my own black and white striped outfit. Check. Everyone in pigtails? Double check. Now it was time to make some boys cry…one way or another. It was a humid, sticky day at kinky … [Read more…]
Me. The Mistress. The Femdom wife. The girlfriend. The committed nesting partner. Me. You would think with a slew of labels like that it would really be all about me though wouldn’t it? But today as I made the same, short drive I make at least a dozen times a week from my boyfriend’s house … [Read more…]
I never like to get on my high horse and it’s part of the reason I’ve kept quiet up until now but silent I can no longer be. This is a growing issue not only in my own local community but across the whole of BDSM communities alike. It’s an issue that is increasingly giving … [Read more…]
Well I think it’s fair to say 2017 has been one of the more interesting and eventful years of my life. While it hasn’t quite matched 2016 for the sheer level of kink, it’s certainly made up for that in dramatics. 2016 was the year I made the trip across the ocean to enter stage … [Read more…]
‘Only boring people get bored’ my Mom would say to me as a child. I took that to heart as a youngling and made it a philosophy to live by. Anytime I felt ‘bored’ in or by life I found a way to rouse myself out of the funk. This didn’t always end well but it … [Read more…]
There’s no one I love more than myself. I don’t say that to come across as an asshole, I say that because it’s the person I spend the most time with. The one whose mind I get to run rampant through and who I lie awake with each night. Just having passed that day that … [Read more…]
We’re back with Woody (and the Beast) as delve further into what to do as you’re finding your way in a new community. We discuss: Finding a mentor Being safe and setting limits Managing expectations Educating yourself It’s up live now, so please give it a listen!