I look around the room and wonder… Does anyone in here know what a true break from this all means? It’s an ironic observation as I, myself, stand up on a stage in front of nearly 100 fellow kinksters, ready to speak on a kinky topic. I feel like a fraud whenever this happens (as … [Read more…]
I won’t bore you with the usual caution to not trust just anyone, no matter the size of their toybag. I will, however, share with you some things I’ve cultivated and strived for over the years to become what I consider, a Femdom of respectable caliber. It varies greatly when we get to the specific … [Read more…]
It’s the month often associated with pumpkins, the changing of the leaves, and oh yes, and trick or treat. The month is truly a treat for those adults who decide to partake in the tradition less often talked about: Loctober. Yes, a whole, glorious 31, non-stop, no-being-poked-in-the-back-in-the-middle-of-the-night, no boner, chastity play month. This custom, which … [Read more…]
A Contribution Writing For Kink Weekly I grab him by his short locks one handful at a time chiding him as I grind up against him. It’s just me, him, and a hard wooden, freshly polished St. Andrew’s cross. I know there’s a mixture of pleasure and pain as I force him against the rigid … [Read more…]
A while ago, I was a guest of Sadie’s on her podcast Talkin’ Taboo. We had a lovely chat (as well as a her bio-pup sneaking in!) about a lot of the truths I live with as the type of Femdom I am. We chatted about… My local kink community Viewpoints as a POC and … [Read more…]
Last month I took a few minutes to speak with Dan an Dawn of Erotic Awakening and Beyond The Love. They’re the original big thinkers behind the annual 3-day polyamory convention in Columbus, Ohio. Check it out if you are curious or identify as polyamorous for “Education, workshops, social activities, meeting other polyamory people and more”. In 2017 … [Read more…]
Over the years there have been kinks that I wholeheartedly threw myself into and absolutely hated (bootblacking). There’s ones I was sure I would loathe but ended up loving (spitting) and there are some that just wormed their way through my kinky cracks, like ASMR that I haven’t been able to stop being fascinated with. … [Read more…]
One cheerleader dressed in pink. Check. One cheerleader dressed in blue? Check. One referee to oversea it all? I looked down at my own black and white striped outfit. Check. Everyone in pigtails? Double check. Now it was time to make some boys cry…one way or another. It was a humid, sticky day at kinky … [Read more…]
With only hours left until my wedding, I ask myself… What does being a sissy husband mean to me? To me it means so much. It is a lifestyle choice that my Mistress and I are both entering and something that will remain with us, for potentially the rest of our lives. It isn’t something … [Read more…]
