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The Initiation Ritual

May 5, 2025 by d20domme Leave a Comment

I’ve been a spanko since, well, forever! This is one of the few fetishes I enjoy giving and receiving. So it’s no surprise that incorporating impact play as an “initiation ritual” for someone new I play. I consider it is a first step to serivin. Why do I like impact play with new play partners? … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal Tagged: bdsm, D/s, FemDom, newbie, spanking, submission

When every command is a reminder

April 5, 2025 by d20domme

I share a lot of the positives of My lifestyle but it’s not always an easy lifestyle. Being a Femdom is an exercise in power, control, and the careful orchestration of a dynamic that feeds everyone involved. But let Me be real for a moment—it’s also an exercise in patience. And when you’re a Dominant … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal Tagged: bdsm, female led relationship, FemDom, lifestyle, neurodivergence, neurodiversity, neurodiversity kink, relationships, thinking

Democracy over kink

March 5, 2025 by d20domme

For years, My work in the BDSM lifestyle has been centered on education, community-building, and radically honest dialogue. I’ve poured My energy into kink events, discussions, workshops, and classes across the globe that help other kinksters explore BDSM in safe, informed, and consensual ways. But now, I’m making the difficult decision to step back from … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community Tagged: bdsm, community, Democracy, FemDom, freedom, rights, sexual freedom, USA

Interracial D/s dynamics

February 5, 2025 by d20domme Leave a Comment

I want to take this Black History Month to talk about the intersection of dominance, race, and BDSM relationships, which is a profound and deeply personal topic for Me. As a dominant Black woman in alternative relationships with two white cishet presenting male submissives, this 20 year journey has been as rewarding as it has … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal Tagged: bdsm, community, D/s, female domination, FemDom, interracial relationships, race, race play, race relations, relationships, submission

The Duality of BDSM Volunteerism Pt. 2

January 15, 2025 by d20domme Leave a Comment

With nearly 20 years of helping the kink community under My belt, I felt the need to speak up last week. In the first part of My blog into kink volunteerism, I examined the noble intentions behind volunteering and its potential to create positive change in communities. I also broke down the darker side of … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community Tagged: bdsm, community, FemDom, relationships, Volunteerism

Avoid the ‘A-Hole Way’

December 5, 2024 by d20domme Leave a Comment

Breaking up in a BDSM power exchange dynamic can be particularly challenging due to the unique emotional, psychological, and structural elements of the relationship. These breakups often feel more difficult for all involved. This is noticeable as part of what makes these relationships so special, is the depths and expansiveness of where they reach. Power … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, break-up, community, D/s, female domination, FemDom, manners, relationships, self awareness, thinking

Why association isn’t an endorsement

November 5, 2024 by d20domme

Navigating BDSM social and, in my case, a professional space often requires interaction with a wide range of people, groups, and organizations. From event hosts, to start-up kinky ventures and community acquaintances to people you may not particularly like, the world is full of diverse personalities. However, the notion that being polite and maintaining a … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community Tagged: bdsm, community, D/s, etiquette, FemDom, social, social networking, thinking

Lock & Learn: Essential Safety Tips for Chastity

September 30, 2024 by d20domme

It’s that time of year again… It’s LOCK-FRIGGIN-TOBER!! *clears throat* Apologies. As you all may know, I am obsessed with a chastity play. I am a bit fanatical with chastity play. 95% of the partners I’ve played with and had serve Me over the years, were required to enforced chastity in some way or another. … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Relationships Tagged: chastity, chastity play, cuckolding, female led relationship, FemDom, feminization, key holding, Locktober, male chastity, Patreon, safety, sissies, sissification, submission

Fade into the background

September 5, 2024 by d20domme

i had just finished getting ready for bed when Mistress came into the room and asked me if i had enough energy to have some fun.  Even if i was much more tired than i was, the answer would have still been an automatic and enthusiastic “Yes!” “Good” Mistress said “A deal has been struck … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal Tagged: bdsm, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, male submission, pet, polyandry, puppy, queening, slave, threesome
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