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Rant: Naming Power

July 5, 2024 by d20domme

I am be ranting but follow me… Ever since I was a kid, I hated my name. Genuinely distasted being called it. My parents thought it would a great idea to combine their two names (I see you other Black families!). In theory this can work, in practice it usually ends up feeling forced. I … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Rants Tagged: BDSM community, community, d20domme, FemDom, Names, newbie, relationships, thinking

Rant: The kinky copycat

October 5, 2023 by d20domme Leave a Comment

For some people, it’s flattering to be admired and imitated. Some of the most famous celebrities have their style, copied from one project to the next, and the kinky community is no different. For others like myself, being copied can often feel like identity theft. Just as you reading this, I am a unique person. … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Rants Tagged: bdsm, Brains, community, copycat, FemDom, friendship, imitation, psychology, thinking

Rant: Poly =/= ‘Open for business’

February 7, 2022 by d20domme

Poly people, sit down, *whew*, let’s have a chat. Oh wait, let me dial the ENM participants in as well, they’ll want to hear this. Yes, I know they’re new around here but this is for them too. Everyone here? Great, get comfortable, but not too comfortable, as that seems to be part of the … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Rants, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: community, ENM, ethical non monogamy, FemDom, poly, polyamory, polyandry, rant, relationships, thinking

Rant: The sometimes sub

October 6, 2020 by d20domme

When I make my mind up it’s hard to change. Not impossible but you will have your work cut out for you. With that in mind, when I decided I wanted a submissive in my life, wanted a life of D/s, and decided I was going to give this my all, well, it was and … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Rants, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, expectations, fantasy, FemDom, flr, rant, reality, submission, submissives

#BlackLivesMatter

June 5, 2020 by d20domme

Right now is a particularly difficult and tragic time for the black community in the United States of America. The world is watching us fail our black and POC citizens across the board. There’s a message bigger than any kink topics I can offer this month. I am sharing an infographic for those of you … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Femdom, Personal Journal, Rants, Thoughts Tagged: allies, black lives matter, blm, change, community, inequality, PoC, racism, reality, resources, support

Rant: Fight for your community

April 5, 2020 by d20domme

Long before the virus broke fully out, I had my own ideas about social gatherings, touching, close quarter playing and more. To be honest, I don’t really like being in an enclosed space with sweaty people and body fluids. Beyond my general dislike for my own sweat, let alone someone else’s, I’ve witnessed quite a … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Rants Tagged: bdsm, community, dangerous, pandemic, predators, rant, support, thoughts

Rant: The Disposable Domme™

March 1, 2018 by d20domme

You’re not a good dominant if you don’t have a way to make ends meet.You’re not a good dominant if you’re free loading on friends or family.You’re not a good dominant if you don’t have control of your own life. I know that sounds harsh and comes off as elitist but it’s my honest opinion. … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Rants Tagged: bdsm, domination, female domination, FemDom, rant, safety, self awareness, self-reflection, submission, thinking

Rant: Fuck your community

April 20, 2016 by d20domme

Seriously. I’m not trying to be hateful, just honest. I’ve had the pleasure (mostly) of being able to be a part of local BDSM communities around the world. Some have run like well oiled machines, friendly faces and helping hands all around. Others have been run like the classroom of a preschool teacher’s worst nightmare. … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Rants Tagged: bdsm, community, consent, decisions, female domination, FemDom, rants

Rant: Big girls don’t cry

December 1, 2011 by d20domme

I have a right to be choosy. I can choose who kneels for me…who kisses my heels…who worships my body…and more importantly who serves me. Just because I’m fat doesn’t mean I don’t get to be choosy. I’ve mentioned before that I have a strict age preference for the men I want to serve me. … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Rants, Thoughts Tagged: body empowerment, Collarme, fat, opinion, plus size, prejudice, rant, thinking
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