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Rant: Poly =/= ‘Open for business’

February 7, 2022 by d20domme

Poly people, sit down, *whew*, let’s have a chat. Oh wait, let me dial the ENM participants in as well, they’ll want to hear this. Yes, I know they’re new around here but this is for them too. Everyone here? Great, get comfortable, but not too comfortable, as that seems to be part of the … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Rants, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: community, ENM, ethical non monogamy, FemDom, poly, polyamory, polyandry, rant, relationships, thinking

Rant: The sometimes sub

October 6, 2020 by d20domme

When I make my mind up it’s hard to change. Not impossible but you will have your work cut out for you. With that in mind, when I decided I wanted a submissive in my life, wanted a life of D/s, and decided I was going to give this my all, well, it was and … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Rants, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, expectations, fantasy, FemDom, flr, rant, reality, submission, submissives

#BlackLivesMatter

June 5, 2020 by d20domme

Right now is a particularly difficult and tragic time for the black community in the United States of America. The world is watching us fail our black and POC citizens across the board. There’s a message bigger than any kink topics I can offer this month. I am sharing an infographic for those of you … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Femdom, Personal Journal, Rants, Thoughts Tagged: allies, black lives matter, blm, change, community, inequality, PoC, racism, reality, resources, support

Rant: Fight for your community

April 5, 2020 by d20domme

Long before the virus broke fully out, I had my own ideas about social gatherings, touching, close quarter playing and more. To be honest, I don’t really like being in an enclosed space with sweaty people and body fluids. Beyond my general dislike for my own sweat, let alone someone else’s, I’ve witnessed quite a … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Rants Tagged: bdsm, community, dangerous, pandemic, predators, rant, support, thoughts

Rant: The Disposable Domme™

March 1, 2018 by d20domme

You’re not a good dominant if you don’t have a way to make ends meet.You’re not a good dominant if you’re free loading on friends or family.You’re not a good dominant if you don’t have control of your own life. I know that sounds harsh and comes off as elitist but it’s my honest opinion. … [Read more…]

Posted in: Rants Tagged: bdsm, domination, female domination, FemDom, rant, safety, self awareness, self-reflection, submission, thinking

Rant: Fuck your community

April 20, 2016 by d20domme

Seriously. I’m not trying to be hateful, just honest. I’ve had the pleasure (mostly) of being able to be a part of local BDSM communities around the world. Some have run like well oiled machines, friendly faces and helping hands all around. Others have been run like the classroom of a preschool teacher’s worst nightmare. … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Rants Tagged: bdsm, community, consent, decisions, female domination, FemDom, rants

Rant: Big girls don’t cry

December 1, 2011 by d20domme

I have a right to be choosy. I can choose who kneels for me…who kisses my heels…who worships my body…and more importantly who serves me. Just because I’m fat doesn’t mean I don’t get to be choosy. I’ve mentioned before that I have a strict age preference for the men I want to serve me. … [Read more…]

Posted in: Rants, Thoughts Tagged: body empowerment, Collarme, fat, opinion, plus size, prejudice, rant, thinking

The twilight zone

November 13, 2011 by d20domme

After my trip to London I feel a bit empty. Aside from my personal issues while there my scene experience was great…too great in fact. It’s made me feel as if the scene in this area is not where I belong. When I was overseas it was like a parallel universe where plus size dominant … [Read more…]

Posted in: Rants, Thoughts Tagged: FemDom, male submission, rant, submissives, thinking, travel, unhappy

Rant: Polyamory is not a bad word

August 29, 2011 by d20domme

Listen up men of the interwebs…swingers ≠ polyamorous  I have a few profiles floating around online and all of them mention my being in an open relationship. Despite my stating its variance to swinging the young (and sometimes much too old), dense men writing me don’t seem to understand the distinct differences. So it is … [Read more…]

Posted in: Rants, Thoughts Tagged: dating, poly, polyamory, rant, relationships, swinging
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