‘Natali’ is the pen name I gave to myself when I found my power in living an alternative lifestyle and decided to write about it, “d20domme” is who I am when I am in motion during that lifestyle while presenting, podcasting, or running a demo at events. My style of ‘kink’ is like rolling a 20-sided die. It’s spontaneous, tactile, theatrical, physical, usually loud, and erotically intimate depending on who you are. 

I am kinky, jet-setting, plus size, pint-height, polyandrous, POC, Femdom. I know what I want and will use my craft in mindfuckery and persuasive tongue to get it. In my evolution into my 24/7 FLR lifestyle I often equate my 15+ year journey into kink as ‘falling down the rabbit hole’ and constantly enjoy teaching and being taught new things among kinksters.

I have made the transition *From Mundane to Mistress and want to share my ongoing real life experience with people in hopes to show BDSM in a different light for those who are curious or confused about the lifestyle. I am doing my part to normalize kinky lifestyles across the board and thus I can often be found writing here on my blog or features on kinky websites, chatting away on podcasts, teaching classes, demos, or presenting as an educator locally in Washington, DC, New York, NY, Portland, OR, California, and across the pond around Europe. 

If you’d like me at an event (small or large scale) email me at d20@mundanetoms.com to get in touch about my schedule.

*I’ve never really been mundane