‘Natali’ is the pen name I gave to myself when I found my power in living an alternative lifestyle and decided to write about it, d20domme is who I am when I in motion during that lifestyle while  presenting, podcasting, or demoing at events. My style of ‘kink’ is *like* rolling a ‘20’ on a die. It’s tactile, theatrical, physical, usually loud, and erotically intimate depending on who you are. (Shout out to my fellow kinky geeks).

I am unapologetically kinky and known as a jet-setting, plus size, pint-height, polyish, POC, Femdom. I know what I want and will use my craft in mindfuckery and persuasive tongue to get it. In my evolution into my new 24/7 FLM I often equate my 10+ year journey into kink as ‘falling down the rabbit hole’ and constantly enjoy teaching and being taught new things among kinksters. My current fascinations are public humiliation, CBT, inducing fear tactics for responses, predicament bondage, mummification, male chastity, obedience hypnosis, and extreme erotic asphyxiation.

I have made the transition from *Mundane to Mistress and want to share my ongoing experience with people in hopes to show BDSM in a different light for those who are curious or confused about the lifestyle. I would like to normalize kinky lifestyles across the board and thus I can often be found writing here on my blog, chatting away on podcasts, teaching classes, demos, or presenting locally in Washington, DC, Baltimore, MD, New York, NY, Portland, OR, and sometimes across the pond in London, UK and around Europe. 

If you’d like me at an event (small or large scale) use the contact form to get in touch about my schedule.

*I’ve never really been mundane