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The ‘Golden Ticket’ to submission

March 5, 2023 by d20domme Leave a Comment

“Greetings to you, the lucky finder of this Golden Ticket, from Mistress d20domme! I spank you warmly on the bottom! Tremendous things are in store for you! Many wonderful surprises await you!“ If you’re American, you are no doubt familiar with the tale of Roald Dahl’s 1964 novel ‘Charlie and the Chocolate Factory‘. Willy Wonka, the founder of … [Read more…]

Posted in: Relationships Tagged: bdsm, community, D/s, domination, FemDom, relationships, self awareness, submission

Keep your standards too high

March 5, 2022 by d20domme

I’ve been told on more than one occasion… ‘Wow you have really high standards.’ or ‘Maybe your standards are too high.’ The thing is, I don’t believe in having “too high standards”. I believe in unrealistic standards – they can be high, low, or just shit. Over the years in my search for a submissive/slave … [Read more…]

Posted in: Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: D/s, dating, FemDom, love, relationships, self awareness, self love, submission, thinking

Novices need not apply

December 5, 2021 by d20domme

Well, this is my personal decree that I am, as of this year, 100% done playing with newbies in the kink community. I know that sounds harsh and elitist but, that’s my preference now. Blame stupid boys for being stupid. After years and years of painstakingly meeting new submissives, coddling cucks, cultivating what appears to … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Femdom, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, ego, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, male submission, relationships, self awareness, thinking, vanilla

Are you suffering from pandem-dick?

July 5, 2020 by d20domme

As anyone knows, this current pandemic has combined some of the worst elements of humanity for us. We have fears about an invisible, hard to detect contagion on top of forced social and physical isolation by our governments. Even on the surface it’s easy to see why this is a stressful time for even the … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Relationships Tagged: love, masturbation, pandemic, relationships, self awareness, self-care, sex, thoughts

Guest of Kinky Cocktail Hour: A POC Femdom Journey

June 20, 2020 by d20domme

I had the pleasure of having a virtual drink and chat with the duo Lady Petra and SafferMaster of Kinky Cocktail Hour while they sipped a very delicious looking Mojito. They claim I am the busiest Domme in the Universe but they clearly don’t know how many, many naps I take in between everything haha. … [Read more…]

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: community, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, kinky cocktail hour, lifestyle, opinion, podcast, Q&A, self awareness, thoughts

Guest of Aunt Suzie’s Sex-Cast: Deeper Into Femdom

April 20, 2020 by d20domme

I hung out with the fabulous Aunt Suzie and her producer Ashlen this month. This was a live interview with questions from listeners about Femdomming, and BDSM lifestyles or just about anything you can think of when it comes to being in the BDSM Community. We chatted about kink lifestyle, hottest moments, and strangest and … [Read more…]

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: aunt suzie, community, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, fetishes, lifestyle, opinion, podcast, polyamory, Q&A, self awareness, thoughts

No, I won’t break you

March 5, 2020 by d20domme

“Mistress, please just break me down.”“I’ll be anything you want.”“Remind me that I am nothing.” These are all “sexy phrases” I’m assuming submissives have heard or seen in porn or worse? I say assume because for me, phrases like these immediately take me out of my dominant headspace and replaces it with a big “huh?!”. … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Contributions, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, domination, empowerment, power exchange, self awareness, self love, self-care, submission

Protect your energy

January 1, 2020 by d20domme

We all want the adventure, excitement, and fun that accompanies the best relationships. How do you do that if your romance is draining you instead of filling you up energetically? Have you felt overwhelmed, exhausted, and negatively impacted by thoughts of someone, in this case a partner, for most of the day? It could be possible … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Relationships Tagged: energy drain, energy vampire, relationships, self awareness

Less labels more talking

August 26, 2019 by d20domme

As humans we have an innate obsession with placing labels on everything, including ourselves. Labels help give people a false sense of order and a way to separate things. However, we aren’t things; we’re people first and heavily using labels to categorize people isn’t fair. It takes away the depth and complexity each of us … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, boundaries, communication, community, interpersonal, labels, nlp, opinion, respect, self awareness, social, thoughts, words
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