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When every command is a reminder

April 5, 2025 by d20domme

I share a lot of the positives of My lifestyle but it’s not always an easy lifestyle. Being a Femdom is an exercise in power, control, and the careful orchestration of a dynamic that feeds everyone involved. But let Me be real for a moment—it’s also an exercise in patience. And when you’re a Dominant … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal Tagged: bdsm, female led relationship, FemDom, lifestyle, neurodivergence, neurodiversity, neurodiversity kink, relationships, thinking

Lock & Learn: Essential Safety Tips for Chastity

September 30, 2024 by d20domme

It’s that time of year again… It’s LOCK-FRIGGIN-TOBER!! *clears throat* Apologies. As you all may know, I am obsessed with a chastity play. I am a bit fanatical with chastity play. 95% of the partners I’ve played with and had serve Me over the years, were required to enforced chastity in some way or another. … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Relationships Tagged: chastity, chastity play, cuckolding, female led relationship, FemDom, feminization, key holding, Locktober, male chastity, Patreon, safety, sissies, sissification, submission

Fade into the background

September 5, 2024 by d20domme

i had just finished getting ready for bed when Mistress came into the room and asked me if i had enough energy to have some fun.  Even if i was much more tired than i was, the answer would have still been an automatic and enthusiastic “Yes!” “Good” Mistress said “A deal has been struck … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal Tagged: bdsm, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, male submission, pet, polyandry, puppy, queening, slave, threesome

Kinky Bucket List: 40 at 40

January 5, 2024 by d20domme Leave a Comment

This year I will be double d20s!  I entered the kink community nearly 20 years ago as a student and observer and stand now as a kinky lifestyle educator. I still love to chronicle my transition from mundane to the marvelous Mistress I see reflected back in the mirror each day. To say I am … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal Tagged: 40th birthday, bdsm, bucket list, D/s, female led relationship, FemDom, kinky, Patreon

Guest of What Excites Us!: Hypnoplay

April 5, 2023 by d20domme

Some of my favorite kind of podcasts to chat on, are the ones where there is no one topic, the training wheels are off and you and the host are taking each other for a kinky-test drive out into the open audible world. That’s what chatting with Gwyn Issacs of the What Excites Us! was … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: 24/7, D/s, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, fetishes, lifestyle, male submission, opinion, Podcasts, poly, polyamory, polyandry, Q&A, slave, thoughts, what excites us

Guest of Kinky Cocktail Hour

November 5, 2022 by d20domme

You may remember a couple of years ago I chatted with the very fun and kinky duo, Lady Petra and SafferMaster of Kinky Cocktail Hour. Lucky for me (and you!) they asked me back for more of my Femdommery ramblings that I love to chat about over a Gin Martini. We also talked… Hear all … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: 24/7, D/s, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, fetishes, lifestyle, opinion, Podcasts, Q&A, slave, thoughts, tpe

Locktober: The pornography pitfall

October 5, 2022 by d20domme

As a longtime advocate and participant of Locktober as a Keyholder (and self-locked one year, for science!), chastity isn’t new to me. The pros and cons aren’t at all hard to discern. However, when I first became aware of it, I only knew it from a vanilla context to rebuild trust after cheating. The more … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Relationships Tagged: chastity, female led relationship, Locktober, male chastity, relationships, sexuality

Unapologetically elitist

June 5, 2022 by d20domme

I’ve cleared my spam box, especially for this post, as I know I’m going to illicit some strong emotions in some readers. I have a very specific way of doing my kink. It manifests as high protocol, extreme structure, decedent clothing, trips, and fetish wear, expensive toys, and yes, invasive rules that I try to … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal Tagged: bdsm, community, cool kids, D/s, elite, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, thinking

Guest of Kink in the Chain

May 5, 2022 by d20domme

Not too long ago I had a chat on the podcast Kink in the Chains with host, Rope Squirrel. Our conversation touched on a little of some of my most favorite kink topics such as… Hear all the details – give it a listen!

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: community, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, fetishes, Kink in the Chain, lifestyle, opinion, PoC, Podcasts, Q&A, thoughts
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