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To live is to change, is to grow

January 5, 2022 by d20domme

It’s a new year and as we all like to pretend it’s time for change. Real change this time, right?Whether you like it or not, it is as Heraclitus said, ‘Nothing is permanent except change.’ It’s inevitable. So why do we hate it so much or fight it when it’s presented to us? Simply put, … [Read more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, D/s, female led relationship, FemDom, kink, male submission, polyamory, relationships, slave, thinking

Franken-Toy

March 18, 2010 by d20domme

More and more I’ve been thinking about the various men I have met and been with throughout my life. Sometimes I find myself wishing I could take a small souvenir of them to build what I’ve dreamed in my mind as: Franken-Toy. Franken-Toy would be my personal fuck toy. He would look, think, act, and … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Thoughts Tagged: Craigslist, fantasy, female led relationship, FemDom, insomnia, list, penis, slave, submission, toys

Rant: Who cares what you want anyway?

February 18, 2010 by d20domme

If you’re a submissive male and you’ve signed yourself up for BDSM, you might as well signed in blood. You beg, plead, throw grown men tantrums, and all but cry to get the things you “want”. But honestly it’s never about what you want. Part of your submissive appeal is that you are just that…submissive. … [Read more…]

Posted in: Rants, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, fetishes, list, no limits, obedience, rant, requirements, slave, submissives, topping from the bottom

slave Vs. Boyfriend

October 20, 2009 by d20domme

The epic theoretical battle that I’ve been fighting with in my head for a couple of months. If the two were liquids, they’d be oil and water. They are not meshing well. Each has their own pros and their own cons. The Boyfriend: The traditional beau. He’ll woo you until he gets you (or gets … [Read more…]

Posted in: Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, bf, female domination, questions, relationships, slave, submission

Calculated compensation

October 3, 2009 by d20domme

I almost forget how much I enjoy seeing the look on my new bf’s face when we are playing. It’s a heavenly mixture of fear and arousal that gets me wet just thinking about it. We’ve been playing on and off when we see each other at night. One night he begged me to spank … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: agreement, bdsm, moving, no limits, relationships, slave, spanking, submission, submit, trust

Want to play a game?

September 9, 2009 by d20domme

That’s what the new bf whispered to me tonight while we were lying in bed tonight. We had just winded down an intense ten minutes of biting and scratching and dry humping and he sounded almost out of breath with his question.  “What kind of game,” I asked him playfully.  “A game where you’re a … [Read more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, collar and leash, D/s, face slapping, family, play, relationships, slave, spitting, thinking

You be you and I’ll be me

July 24, 2009 by d20domme

I woke up this morning naked, drunk, in a strange apartment and slightly sore between my legs. I know, that’s one hell of a Thursday night…but let me back up the story so I don’t come off sounding like a five-dollar hooker who was slipped some roofies.  Tuesday night I had my first real kiss … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, D/s, drinking, kissing, relationship, sex, slave, thinking

Is there beauty in the breakdown?

June 21, 2009 by d20domme

It’s funny how when you first embark on something new and unfamiliar you find yourself trying to predict what will befall you. Sometimes, I try to think of the most absurd things happening and then try to plan ahead for that. I am a planner with things that are important to me. I try to … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: apologies, bdsm, D/s, forgiveness, love, relationship, slave, thinking

Rideshare-a-sub

May 21, 2009 by d20domme

Owning a slave is much like owning a bike. You don’t just loan your bike to anyone. Maybe your sister (after insistent begging), your neighbor and your best friend. I did the latter. I let my friend play with my slave last night.  She had begged and begged and since I was feeling nice I … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, D/s, friend, play, relationship, sharing, slave, spanking
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