If you’re a submissive male and you’ve signed yourself up for BDSM, you might as well signed in blood. You beg, plead, throw grown men tantrums, and all but cry to get the things you “want”. But honestly it’s never about what you want.
Part of your submissive appeal is that you are just that…submissive. If you haven’t already, go look that up…I’ll wait….
Yes, see the part where it says ‘submitting‘? Ahh, glossed over that little bit did ya? Well next time re-read carefully! If you have been chosen to be under my heel then you better damn well get use to the smell of feet. I don’t know about other Mistresses but I have usually picked my submissive because we have the same sexual interests or he has been foolish enough to list them as “willing to try anything.” I might even have given him the chance to explicitly tell me the things he most enjoys.
Boys, that’s your one and only cue to tell me what you want, other than that don’t mention it! I am tired of “do-me” submissives writing me with lists of the things they will ‘only’ do but stating I can do whatever I like with them.
Today class we’ll learn the lesson of an oxymoron.
But seriously guys, your place is to be submissive…cater to our every whim, please when me even I say I don’t really want it, and to anticipate ways to make me smile. Passive service is the name of the game.
In return you will get our happiness…and isn’t that enough to make your balls tingle?