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White lies lead to red asses – Part II

January 30, 2013 by d20domme

I said the words more sternly than I had intended but I still enjoyed the effect of his wide eyes and immediate obedience. He stripped down to his undies and stood before me hands neatly behind his back. I looked down at the underwear disapprovingly over the rim of my glasses. “You won’t be needing … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: apologies, bdsm, bf, Bianca, clubs, female led relationship, FemDom, lies, male submission, play parties, punishment, relationships, scene, spanking

Wet behind the ears – Part I

August 29, 2012 by d20domme

He had agreed to this.To give me his body.Granting me full control to use it how I saw fit. He wasn’t a submissive but he had what I’d call “submissive tendencies”. Our relationship thus far had proved that much. Now it was time to see exactly how much he trusted me with his body. I … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, bf, Bianca, domination, female domination, FemDom, male submission, obedience, relationship, submission, tease and denial

I dare you

December 7, 2011 by d20domme

I knew what he wanted but I wouldn’t give it to him. He carefully placed his hand under my blanket now, rubbing just the underside of my cheeks as I lay face down. I lazily but rhythmically stroked his bare cock with my left hand, making sure to take care when nearing the head—his favorite … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: aggression, bf, female led relationship, love, relationships, sex, submission, vanilla

It’ll only ache more…

August 12, 2010 by d20domme

I finally stopped being anti-social last night and headed out to the city for a night with some fellow kinksters. It was my first meeting with the group so I brought along my most trusted entourage members: the fiance and my best male friend. It’s funny to see my vanilla man in these situations as … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal Tagged: bdsm, bf, collar and leash, drinking, female domination, FemDom, Fetlife, horny, naughty, roommate, spanking

MonoPoly: Passing Go or Straight To Jail?

May 11, 2010 by d20domme

A lot of people are curious about my relationship status and how I maintain in general the relationships I am involved in. I’ve found that “MonoPoly” is a new buzz word that’s been making its way around the scene. After learning a bit more about it I suppose my lifestyle would fit into its category. … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: acceptance, bf, decisions, MonoPoly, poly, polyamory, relationships, self-reflection, thinking

Repression = Aggression?

November 9, 2009 by d20domme

It was 5:30 am and I had just had sex with a stranger for the third time in a week. I say “stranger” in the sense that the sex my bf and I now have feels, well…strange. We have only known each other for the past 7 months in a certain capacity and now that … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Thoughts Tagged: aggression, anger, arguments, bdsm, bf, bitchy, orgasm, pouty, repression, sex, thinking, vanilla

slave Vs. Boyfriend

October 20, 2009 by d20domme

The epic theoretical battle that I’ve been fighting with in my head for a couple of months. If the two were liquids, they’d be oil and water. They are not meshing well. Each has their own pros and their own cons. The Boyfriend: The traditional beau. He’ll woo you until he gets you (or gets … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, bf, female domination, questions, relationships, slave, submission

At my beck & call

May 2, 2009 by d20domme

Thursday night was a pleasant night, filled with tiny surprises throughout. I had a busy, busy day. I attended a privately run BDSM costume party in Philly to photograph the event. The drive there was fun (I find driving very relaxing), the party was astonishing for such a small get-together, and the costumes were just … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, bf, cuckolding, D/s, drunk, punishment, sex, slave
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