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I assaulted someone I love

June 1, 2018 by d20domme

My puppy is back and it’s been an adjustment for us both. I couldn’t help but chuckle softly as I was watched him express genuine over-the-top anger at the video game he was currently playing as he cursed and threw down the controller. It made me laugh until I caught myself mid thought, ‘He needs … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: 24/7, aggression, anger, apologies, arguments, boundaries, challenges, communication, consent, domestic violence, female led relationship, self awareness, thinking, violation

Rant: You’re just boring me

April 11, 2010 by d20domme

Last week I was speaking with a friend of mine who had a problem with my blog. She told me: “I hate that you say we are mundane. Why do you do that?” The “we” she is referring to are the non BDSM/vanilla folks. The weekend prior to seeing her, I met up with the … [Read more…]

Posted in: Rants, Thoughts Tagged: arguments, bdsm, female led relationship, mental health, rant, thinking, vanilla

Know thyself

November 19, 2009 by d20domme

Life’s been busy and honestly I have been trying to put my gripes on the back burner but it has been hard. In the last entry I received some very thought provoking comments. One in particular from Ferns really caught my attention. She stated: “Another thought… I see that he said he didn’t want ‘BDSM’ … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: arguments, bdsm, life, love, questions, relationship, sad, thinking, unhappy

Repression = Aggression?

November 9, 2009 by d20domme

It was 5:30 am and I had just had sex with a stranger for the third time in a week. I say “stranger” in the sense that the sex my bf and I now have feels, well…strange. We have only known each other for the past 7 months in a certain capacity and now that … [Read more…]

Posted in: Thoughts Tagged: aggression, anger, arguments, bdsm, bf, bitchy, orgasm, pouty, repression, sex, thinking, vanilla

Three’s…not company

May 10, 2009 by d20domme

It’s only been 3 days since I last wrote but it feels like I have been missing very important therapy sessions. Writing in general has always calmed me, helped me make sense of otherwise messy thoughts, and just downright feels and sounds good. I also like the sound of keys clacking immensely. But what could … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: arguments, bdsm, D/s, face slapping, objectification, relationship, slave, slave 2, spitting, tpe

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