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I assaulted someone I love

June 1, 2018 by d20domme

My puppy is back and it’s been an adjustment for us both. I couldn’t help but chuckle softly as I was watched him express genuine over-the-top anger at the video game he was currently playing as he cursed and threw down the controller. It made me laugh until I caught myself mid thought, ‘He needs … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: 24/7, aggression, anger, apologies, arguments, boundaries, challenges, communication, consent, domestic violence, female led relationship, self awareness, thinking, violation

The unhappy domme

May 23, 2016 by d20domme

It’s been exactly 110 days since my puppy and I arrived back from overseas and I can’t believe time has passed so quickly. He started his second segment of training a few weeks after arriving and while we started out like a freight train, we’re having a little trouble getting over the bumps we’ve reached. … [Read more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: 24/7, apologies, FemDom, male submission, mental health, perspective, puppy, ramblings, training, unhappy

White lies lead to red asses – Part II

January 30, 2013 by d20domme

I said the words more sternly than I had intended but I still enjoyed the effect of his wide eyes and immediate obedience. He stripped down to his undies and stood before me hands neatly behind his back. I looked down at the underwear disapprovingly over the rim of my glasses. “You won’t be needing … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: apologies, bdsm, bf, Bianca, clubs, female led relationship, FemDom, lies, male submission, play parties, punishment, relationships, scene, spanking

Eventually…

July 17, 2009 by d20domme

The longer I am without BDSM the more I yearn for it. I unconvincingly have tried to lie to myself and say “You don’t need this” but fuck it: I do.  This is my life. This is who I am.  For now anyway…  Which is why I’m going to meet a new potential slave next week. … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: apologies, bdsm, D/s, new slave, relationship, thinking

Is there beauty in the breakdown?

June 21, 2009 by d20domme

It’s funny how when you first embark on something new and unfamiliar you find yourself trying to predict what will befall you. Sometimes, I try to think of the most absurd things happening and then try to plan ahead for that. I am a planner with things that are important to me. I try to … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: apologies, bdsm, D/s, forgiveness, love, relationship, slave, thinking

Ctrl+Alt+Del

May 15, 2009 by d20domme

It seems I’ve done enough busy blogging and avoiding talking about the issue at hand with my slave. Thanks to everyone who has written inquiries. I’ll give you the cliff notes. The verdict is in: My slave “really really cares” …Or so that’s his excuse for invading my privacy. The issue with slave 2 mushroomed … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal Tagged: apologies, bdsm, D/s, deception, emotions, relationship, restart, slave 2

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