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I gave MsC a try…again

September 12, 2023 by d20domme

For those in the know, I’ve been around. I started my kink journey on the West coast and the community, dedication, and peer pairing I received, even as a wee-little baby Domme were formidable for me. One of the first spaces I was allowed into, although I had no business there at the time, was … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal Tagged: bdsm, community, convention, D/s, female domination, FemDom, M/s, Master/slave, Mid-Atlantic M/s, MsC, thinking

Guest of The Partition

September 5, 2023 by d20domme

I am someone who has been on a lifelong academic journey to uncover and discover what makes us who we are and explains the kinks we’re into. That’s why I couldn’t pass up a chance to chat with Kinky Wellness coach, Dana Shergill of The Partition: Home of Kinky Wellness! She advocates approaching kink as … [Read more…]

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: D/s, FemDom, fetishes, lifestyle, opinion, podcast, sex coach, sexual wellness, the partition, thoughts, wellness

BDSpectrum: Neurodiversity in D/s

July 5, 2023 by d20domme

Throughout my 15+ years embedded in kinky spaces I have made an observation. There is a distinct overlap between those who identify as neurodiverse and those who are part of the BDSM community. Noticing the patterns of this intersectionality has been even easier, because finally, we as a society, are becoming increasingly aware of neurodiversity, especially … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community Tagged: ADD, ADHD, Austism, Autism Spectrum, bdsm, community, D/s, hyperfocus, neurodivergence, neurodiversity, neurodiversity kink, sexual identity, sexuality, thinking

Debunking ‘topping from the bottom’

June 5, 2023 by d20domme Leave a Comment

Topping from the bottom. Bratting from the bottom. Topping from below. Sub-sparring. I’ve heard it called many things. This discussion bores me but I think it’s crucial to identify the flaws embedded within it. In my opinion, this phrase is possibly one of the most misunderstood in the entire BDSM lexicon and a useless phrase … [Read more…]

Posted in: Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, bottoming, D/s, relationships, submission, thinking, topping, topping from the bottom

Addicted to love: NRC addiction

May 5, 2023 by d20domme

I know a lot of junkies. Not your typical run of the mill junkies that you might be thinking of. No. I’m talking about the kind that are a seemingly common staple in the kinky and/or polyamory community: NRC addicts. Let’s be honest with ourselves, we’re all here for the endorphins. Each and every one … [Read more…]

Posted in: Relationships Tagged: bdsm, Brains, D/s, New Relationship Energy, NRC, NRE, psychology, relationships, thinking

Guest of What Excites Us!

April 5, 2023 by d20domme

Some of my favorite kind of podcasts to chat on, are the ones where there is no one topic, the training wheels are off and you and the host are taking each other for a kinky-test drive out into the open audible world. That’s what chatting with Gwyn Issacs of the What Excites Us! was … [Read more…]

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: 24/7, D/s, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, fetishes, lifestyle, male submission, opinion, podcast, poly, polyamory, polyandry, Q&A, slave, thoughts, what excites us

The ‘Golden Ticket’ to submission

March 5, 2023 by d20domme Leave a Comment

“Greetings to you, the lucky finder of this Golden Ticket, from Mistress d20domme! I spank you warmly on the bottom! Tremendous things are in store for you! Many wonderful surprises await you!“ If you’re American, you are no doubt familiar with the tale of Roald Dahl’s 1964 novel ‘Charlie and the Chocolate Factory‘. Willy Wonka, the founder of … [Read more…]

Posted in: Relationships Tagged: bdsm, community, D/s, domination, FemDom, relationships, self awareness, submission

I am a psychological vigilante

February 6, 2023 by d20domme Leave a Comment

I recently heard this term in a vanilla setting, made as a passing ‘scoffing’ comment and it really stuck with me. Let me be honest, it struck a chord with my Femdom loins. Why did it excite me? If I had to describe what a psychological vigilante was and why I embody it, that’s easy. … [Read more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, D/s, dominantion, FemDom, mental health, relationships

Avoiding Dominant Drain™

January 5, 2023 by d20domme

The new year is upon us and with that usually comes aspects of change – change that we are excited for, but change nonetheless. But…if you’re a self torturing-masochist like myself, it may mean laying the next layer to the foundation of your ideal 24/7 LIFEstyle. For years I have put in the time and … [Read more…]

Posted in: Relationships Tagged: bdsm, communication, D/s, fatigue, relationships, self care
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