“Mistress, please just break me down.”“I’ll be anything you want.”“Remind me that I am nothing.” These are all “sexy phrases” I’m assuming submissives have heard or seen in porn or worse? I say assume because for me, phrases like these immediately take me out of my dominant headspace and replaces it with a big “huh?!”. … [Read more…]
As long as I’ve been on my kink journey, I have remained steadfast in one notion: I want to be catered to. I want to be put first and my happiness right next to it. I often dreamed of having an equally OCD submissive who could clean my home from top to bottom, maid’s uniform, … [Read more…]
I won’t bore you with the usual caution to not trust just anyone, no matter the size of their toybag. I will, however, share with you some things I’ve cultivated and strived for over the years to become what I consider, a Femdom of respectable caliber. It varies greatly when we get to the specific … [Read more…]
It’s the month often associated with pumpkins, the changing of the leaves, and oh yes, and trick or treat. The month is truly a treat for those adults who decide to partake in the tradition less often talked about: Loctober. Yes, a whole, glorious 31, non-stop, no-being-poked-in-the-back-in-the-middle-of-the-night, no boner, chastity play month. This custom, which … [Read more…]
One cheerleader dressed in pink. Check. One cheerleader dressed in blue? Check. One referee to oversea it all? I looked down at my own black and white striped outfit. Check. Everyone in pigtails? Double check. Now it was time to make some boys cry…one way or another. It was a humid, sticky day at kinky … [Read more…]
You’re not a good dominant if you don’t have a way to make ends meet.You’re not a good dominant if you’re free loading on friends or family.You’re not a good dominant if you don’t have control of your own life. I know that sounds harsh and comes off as elitist but it’s my honest opinion. … [Read more…]
Do not to panic. I tell myself this internally over and over a few times as I strain to concentrate on the television. My puppy lays just under my chin, his soft brown tresses brushing my lips. “Right Mommy?” Shit, he’s asked me something and I’ve completely missed it while inside my own head. “Mmm hmmm,” … [Read more…]
The role of ‘Susie Homemaker’ has never appealed to me. I hate dishes.I loathe ironing.And window washing?! Death by watching paint dry please! But I’ve found I love vacuuming, it’s soothing. Dusting makes it easy for me to be excited by the visible progress and wiping the kitchen down creates a aura of “win” within … [Read more…]
I’ve written and rewritten this entry about my meeting with my puppy from overseas but nothing has felt right. Nothing has been able to convey the sheer level of connection that we experienced in his short time here. I can only describe it as serendipity. We met online by chance. We live thousands miles apart … [Read more…]
