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The madness of temptation

September 5, 2022 by d20domme

When you think about BDSM and the aspect of service, I bet one of the first things that come to your mind is about willpower. How can a submissive endure that?Why do they agree to this over and over?What can they be telling themselves to push through?When will they give up?Where do they summon the … [Read more…]

Posted in: Thoughts Tagged: D/s, FemDom, psychology, submission, thinking, willpower

Keep your standards too high

March 5, 2022 by d20domme

I’ve been told on more than one occasion… ‘Wow you have really high standards.’ or ‘Maybe your standards are too high.’ The thing is, I don’t believe in having “too high standards”. I believe in unrealistic standards – they can be high, low, or just shit. Over the years in my search for a submissive/slave … [Read more…]

Posted in: Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: D/s, dating, FemDom, love, relationships, self awareness, self love, submission, thinking

Rant: The sometimes sub

October 6, 2020 by d20domme

When I make my mind up it’s hard to change. Not impossible but you will have your work cut out for you. With that in mind, when I decided I wanted a submissive in my life, wanted a life of D/s, and decided I was going to give this my all, well, it was and … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Rants, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, expectations, fantasy, FemDom, flr, rant, reality, submission, submissives

Personal power transfer

August 5, 2020 by d20domme

I took his power and now I was the one complaining. I’ll admit when Puppy and I first met, we both entered into a respective BDSM frenzy; his submissive, mine dominant. We were communicating with each other nearly 24/7, save for some sleeping hours we wedged in between. We moved very fast by all standards … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, FemDom, intentions, leadership, love, power exchange, relationships, submission

No, I won’t break you

March 5, 2020 by d20domme

“Mistress, please just break me down.”“I’ll be anything you want.”“Remind me that I am nothing.” These are all “sexy phrases” I’m assuming submissives have heard or seen in porn or worse? I say assume because for me, phrases like these immediately take me out of my dominant headspace and replaces it with a big “huh?!”. … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Contributions, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, domination, empowerment, power exchange, self awareness, self love, self-care, submission

The great D/s parent trap

February 5, 2020 by d20domme

As long as I’ve been on my kink journey, I have remained steadfast in one notion: I want to be catered to. I want to be put first and my happiness right next to it. I often dreamed of having an equally OCD submissive who could clean my home from top to bottom, maid’s uniform, … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Relationships Tagged: dominance, dynamic, family, history, love, mental health, patterns, relationships, role play, roles, submission

The caliber of a Fem(dom)

October 27, 2019 by d20domme

I won’t bore you with the usual caution to not trust just anyone, no matter the size of their toybag. I will, however, share with you some things I’ve cultivated and strived for over the years to become what I consider, a Femdom of respectable caliber. It varies greatly when we get to the specific … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Femdom Tagged: bdsm, consent, domination, FemDom, newbie, submission, thoughts

Locktober: A treat for all

September 23, 2019 by d20domme

It’s the month often associated with pumpkins, the changing of the leaves, and oh yes, and trick or treat. The month is truly a treat for those adults who decide to partake in the tradition less often talked about: Loctober. Yes, a whole, glorious 31, non-stop, no-being-poked-in-the-back-in-the-middle-of-the-night, no boner, chastity play month. This custom, which … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community Tagged: challenges, chastity, female domination, FemDom, how to, Locktober, male submission, play, submission

Girls rule, boys…drool

October 12, 2018 by d20domme

One cheerleader dressed in pink. Check. One cheerleader dressed in blue? Check. One referee to oversea it all? I looked down at my own black and white striped outfit. Check. Everyone in pigtails? Double check. Now it was time to make some boys cry…one way or another. It was a humid, sticky day at kinky … [Read more…]

Posted in: Contributions, Femdom Tagged: bdsm, bitchy, camp, challenges, costumes, fantasy, female domination, FemDom, humiliation, obedience, outdoor play, puppy, role play, sadism, scene, spitting, squashing, submission, subspace, summer
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