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I was raised as an only Queen

September 5, 2020 by d20domme Leave a Comment

I was raised mostly as an only child. I have a sibling who is a decade older than I am and so when I was 10, they were 20. We weren’t on the same wavelength nor did our wants or needs clash in most cases as we are also complete opposites. I was raised essentially … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: emotions, female led relationship, flr, lifestyle, MonoPoly, poly, polyamory, polyandry, relationships

Personal power transfer

August 5, 2020 by d20domme Leave a Comment

I took his power and now I was the one complaining. I’ll admit when puppy and I first met, we both entered into a respective BDSM frenzy; his submissive, mine dominant. We were communicating with each other nearly 24/7, save for some sleeping hours we wedged in between. We moved very fast by all standards … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, FemDom, intentions, leadership, love, power exchange, relationships, submission

Are you suffering from pandem-dick?

July 5, 2020 by d20domme Leave a Comment

As anyone knows, this current pandemic has combined some of the worst elements of humanity for us. We have fears about an invisible, hard to detect contagion on top of forced social and physical isolation by our governments. Even on the surface it’s easy to see why this is a stressful time for even the … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Relationships Tagged: love, masturbation, pandemic, relationships, self awareness, self-care, sex, thoughts

The great D/s parent trap

February 5, 2020 by d20domme Leave a Comment

As long as I’ve been on my kink journey, I have remained steadfast in one notion: I want to be catered to. I want to be put first and my happiness right next to it. I often dreamed of having an equally OCD submissive who could clean my home from top to bottom, maid’s uniform, … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Relationships Tagged: dominance, dynamic, family, history, love, mental health, patterns, relationships, role play, roles, submission

Protect your energy

January 1, 2020 by d20domme Leave a Comment

We all want the adventure, excitement, and fun that accompanies the best relationships. How do you do that if your romance is draining you instead of filling you up energetically? Have you felt overwhelmed, exhausted, and negatively impacted by thoughts of someone, in this case a partner, for most of the day? It could be possible … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Relationships Tagged: energy drain, energy vampire, relationships, self awareness

Happy Polydays!

December 13, 2019 by d20domme Leave a Comment

Tis the season…For disaster? For long distance trips? Putting up with family members you only see once a year? No, not those things (though they certainly don’t help), I mean the very hectic and stressful Polyday Season™. The time of the year where I consider just signing out of Google Calendar and letting it all … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Personal Journal Tagged: advice, family, friends, holiday, love, poly, polyamory, relationships, thinking, thoughts, tips

Guest of Erotic Awakening: Polyandry 101

March 21, 2019 by d20domme Leave a Comment

Last month I took a few minutes to speak with Dan an Dawn of Erotic Awakening and Beyond The Love. They’re the original big thinkers behind the annual 3-day polyamory convention in Columbus, Ohio. Check it out if you are curious or identify as polyamorous for “Education, workshops, social activities, meeting other polyamory people and more”. In 2017 … [Read more…]

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: beyond the love, communication, dan, dawn, discussion, erotic awakening, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, MonoPoly, podcast, poly, polyamory, polyandry, relationships, self awareness, thoughts

A state of flux

November 17, 2016 by d20domme 3 Comments

These were pictures of someone not even remotely like me. A message indicating that a transaction had taken place. I didn’t want to panic, I just wanted answers. I’ve heard that if you tell a lie once all your truths become questionable. This to me sounds reasonable. When we lie, we are stealing social commodity … [Read more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: 24/7, acceptance, cheating, female led relationship, FemDom, forgiveness, male submission, puppy, relationships, thinking

Mine, yours, not ours

August 10, 2016 by d20domme 4 Comments

Sharing is caring. But what if you care too much to share? You would think as a practicer of polyamory I’d fully understand and be able to execute the act if sharing my partners but it doesn’t always end up that way. This isn’t a post about poly life. This is a post about the … [Read more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: dominance, female domination, female opinion, FemDom, flirting, hard limits, love, male submission, relationships
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