These were pictures of someone not even remotely like me. A message indicating that a transaction had taken place. I didn’t want to panic, I just wanted answers. I’ve heard that if you tell a lie once all your truths become questionable. This to me sounds reasonable. When we lie, we are stealing social commodity … [Read more…]
Sharing is caring. But what if you care too much to share? You would think as a practicer of polyamory I’d fully understand and be able to execute the act if sharing my partners but it doesn’t always end up that way. This isn’t a post about poly life. This is a post about the … [Read more…]
As many of my readers know I am involved in a polyamorous relationship. There’s me in the eye of the storm, my vanilla boyfriend, Locs, my bf turned kinky play partner, and now the newest addition of my beautiful puppy. It’s a lot to handle at times…sometimes too much to handle. When puppy came to … [Read more…]
She gives me a stern look while we sit on the couch. I wait for corrective action in the form of a face slap, a forceful pinch, or a swift but deliberate pull of my hair but it doesn’t come. I look around and see my friends are still talking, oblivious to my darkened thoughts. … [Read more…]
I always seem to find the perfect guy…when I’m already in a relationship. Being the good person that I am I don’t cheat. No. I’ve never cheated. I’ve been cheated on but have never cheated. Instead I resort to the agonizing internal self-infliction—the “What if” game. What if I were single? What if I got … [Read more…]
Listen up men of the interwebs…swingers ≠ polyamorous I have a few profiles floating around online and all of them mention my being in an open relationship. Despite my stating its variance to swinging the young (and sometimes much too old), dense men writing me don’t seem to understand the distinct differences. So it is … [Read more…]
Some friends of mine had a heated debate regarding safewords. Some people hate safewords, feeling that they restrict the natural flow of the relationship and their play time. Others don’t understand their proper place and find them amusing. While the majority of people use safewords to well…feel safe. Safewords are pre-determined word(s) or a phrase … [Read more…]
I’m doing this for him. I’ve been growing my nails out for him. It’s nice to do things for someone again…someone who will appreciate it. Painting and picture taking are always easier with short nails but scratching a succulent sub’s body is more fun, so I grow them for him. He doesn’t know it and … [Read more…]
I had a photography job last year that revealed to me some misconceptions that I may have previously had. I trekked into DC to an old row house just on the outskirts of the city. A significantly older woman than I was expecting answered. When she saw me she greeted me in but also expressed … [Read more…]