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To live is to change, is to grow

January 5, 2022 by d20domme

It’s a new year and as we all like to pretend it’s time for change. Real change this time, right?Whether you like it or not, it is as Heraclitus said, ‘Nothing is permanent except change.’ It’s inevitable. So why do we hate it so much or fight it when it’s presented to us? Simply put, … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, D/s, female led relationship, FemDom, kink, male submission, polyamory, relationships, slave, thinking

Novices need not apply

December 5, 2021 by d20domme

Well, this is my personal decree that I am, as of this year, 100% done playing with newbies in the kink community. I know that sounds harsh and elitist but, that’s my preference now. Blame stupid boys for being stupid. After years and years of painstakingly meeting new submissives, coddling cucks, cultivating what appears to … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Femdom, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, ego, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, male submission, relationships, self awareness, thinking, vanilla

I was raised as an only Queen

September 5, 2020 by d20domme

I was raised essentially as an only child in mindset and environment. I have been wanting to write about this a lot more lately but haven’t been sure on where to start. The past few years have been extremely eye-opening, self aware and hopefully filled with opportunities to grow both inside and outside of the … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: emotions, female led relationship, flr, lifestyle, MonoPoly, poly, polyamory, polyandry, relationships

Personal power transfer

August 5, 2020 by d20domme

I took his power and now I was the one complaining. I’ll admit when Puppy and I first met, we both entered into a respective BDSM frenzy; his submissive, mine dominant. We were communicating with each other nearly 24/7, save for some sleeping hours we wedged in between. We moved very fast by all standards … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, FemDom, intentions, leadership, love, power exchange, relationships, submission

Are you suffering from pandem-dick?

July 5, 2020 by d20domme

As anyone knows, this current pandemic has combined some of the worst elements of humanity for us. We have fears about an invisible, hard to detect contagion on top of forced social and physical isolation by our governments. Even on the surface it’s easy to see why this is a stressful time for even the … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Relationships Tagged: love, masturbation, pandemic, relationships, self awareness, self-care, sex, thoughts

The great D/s parent trap

February 5, 2020 by d20domme

As long as I’ve been on my kink journey, I have remained steadfast in one notion: I want to be catered to. I want to be put first and my happiness right next to it. I often dreamed of having an equally OCD submissive who could clean my home from top to bottom, maid’s uniform, … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Relationships Tagged: dominance, dynamic, family, history, love, mental health, patterns, relationships, role play, roles, submission

Protect your energy

January 1, 2020 by d20domme

We all want the adventure, excitement, and fun that accompanies the best relationships. How do you do that if your romance is draining you instead of filling you up energetically? Have you felt overwhelmed, exhausted, and negatively impacted by thoughts of someone, in this case a partner, for most of the day? It could be possible … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Relationships Tagged: energy drain, energy vampire, relationships, self awareness

Happy Polydays!

December 13, 2019 by d20domme

Tis the season…For disaster? For long distance trips? Putting up with family members you only see once a year? No, not those things (though they certainly don’t help), I mean the very hectic and stressful Polyday Season™. The time of the year where I consider just signing out of Google Calendar and letting it all … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Personal Journal Tagged: advice, family, friends, holiday, love, poly, polyamory, relationships, thinking, thoughts, tips

Guest of Erotic Awakening: Polyandry 101

March 21, 2019 by d20domme

Last month I took a few minutes to speak with Dan an Dawn of Erotic Awakening and Beyond The Love. They’re the original big thinkers behind the annual 3-day polyamory convention in Columbus, Ohio. Check it out if you are curious or identify as polyamorous for “Education, workshops, social activities, meeting other polyamory people and more”. In 2017 … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: beyond the love, communication, dan, dawn, discussion, erotic awakening, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, MonoPoly, Podcasts, poly, polyamory, polyandry, relationships, self awareness, thoughts
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