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Avoiding Dominant Drain™

January 5, 2023 by d20domme

The new year is upon us and with that usually comes aspects of change – change that we are excited for, but change nonetheless. But…if you’re a self torturing-masochist like myself, it may mean laying the next layer to the foundation of your ideal 24/7 LIFEstyle. For years I have put in the time and … [Read more…]

Posted in: Relationships Tagged: bdsm, communication, D/s, fatigue, relationships, self care

Less labels more talking

August 26, 2019 by d20domme

As humans we have an innate obsession with placing labels on everything, including ourselves. Labels help give people a false sense of order and a way to separate things. However, we aren’t things; we’re people first and heavily using labels to categorize people isn’t fair. It takes away the depth and complexity each of us … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, boundaries, communication, community, interpersonal, labels, nlp, opinion, respect, self awareness, social, thoughts, words

It’s my privacy and I want it now!

June 15, 2019 by d20domme

A Contribution Writing For Kink Weekly I grab him by his short locks one handful at a time chiding him as I grind up against him. It’s just me, him, and a hard wooden, freshly polished St. Andrew’s cross. I know there’s a mixture of pleasure and pain as I force him against the rigid … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, communication, female domination, FemDom, kink weekly, kinkster, mentor, presenter, privacy, public speaking, respect, safety

The light side of dark age play

April 19, 2019 by d20domme

A Contribution Writing for Kink Weekly Did reading that title send a little shiver down your spine? It use to do the same for me too. When I first entered the scene many years ago (but who’s counting!), Age play wasn’t really ‘in’. It wasn’t a kink people were talking about. There were no spaces … [Read more…]

Posted in: Contributions Tagged: acceptance, age play, bdsm, communication, community, dark age play, female led relationship, fetishes, kink weekly, kinks, MD/lb, Mommy, opinion, self awareness, taboo

Guest of Erotic Awakening: Polyandry 101

March 21, 2019 by d20domme

Last month I took a few minutes to speak with Dan an Dawn of Erotic Awakening and Beyond The Love. They’re the original big thinkers behind the annual 3-day polyamory convention in Columbus, Ohio. Check it out if you are curious or identify as polyamorous for “Education, workshops, social activities, meeting other polyamory people and more”. In 2017 … [Read more…]

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: beyond the love, communication, dan, dawn, discussion, erotic awakening, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, MonoPoly, podcast, poly, polyamory, polyandry, relationships, self awareness, thoughts

A sadist & a sensualist walk into a bar…

February 2, 2019 by d20domme

I don’t like jokes like this but I do love to laugh. Despite my best efforts, I am a giggler. It doesn’t matter how intense a scene or my hands-on play gets, I can cackle at whatever reaction I am getting from my partner if it delights me. The louder, more vocal and expressive they … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: communication, conscious, cross dress, happiness, love, play, polyamory, self awareness, self-reflection, sensualism, sensualist, sexual touch, tantra, The Gardner

Sissy Husband: To have and to hold

July 22, 2018 by Her puppy

With only hours left until my wedding, I ask myself… What does being a sissy husband mean to me? To me it means so much. It is a lifestyle choice that my Mistress and I are both entering and something that will remain with us, for potentially the rest of our lives. It isn’t something … [Read more…]

Posted in: Contributions Tagged: 24/7, agreement, beginning, communication, female led relationship, FemDom, flr, male submission, marriage, puppy, sissification, sissy

I assaulted someone I love

June 1, 2018 by d20domme

My puppy is back and it’s been an adjustment for us both. I couldn’t help but chuckle softly as I was watched him express genuine over-the-top anger at the video game he was currently playing as he cursed and threw down the controller. It made me laugh until I caught myself mid thought, ‘He needs … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: 24/7, aggression, anger, apologies, arguments, boundaries, challenges, communication, consent, domestic violence, female led relationship, self awareness, thinking, violation

The polycule breakdown

December 18, 2015 by d20domme

As many of my readers know I am involved in a polyamorous relationship. There’s me in the eye of the storm, my vanilla boyfriend, Locs, my bf turned kinky play partner, and now the newest addition of my beautiful puppy. It’s a lot to handle at times…sometimes too much to handle. When puppy came to … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: break-up, communication, female domination, FemDom, MonoPoly, poly, relationships

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