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Me. Me. Me?

August 24, 2018 by d20domme Leave a Comment

Me. The Mistress. The Femdom wife. The girlfriend. The committed nesting partner. Me. You would think with a slew of labels like that it would really be all about me though wouldn’t it? But today as I made the same, short drive I make at least a dozen times a week from my boyfriend’s house … [Read more…]

Posted in: Thoughts Tagged: 24/7, acceptance, bdsm, challenges, decisions, doubts, emotions, mental health, motivation, perspective, self-care, self-reflection, thinking

Rant: Fuck your community

April 20, 2016 by d20domme 5 Comments

Seriously. I’m not trying to be hateful, just honest. I’ve had the pleasure (mostly) of being able to be a part of local BDSM communities around the world. Some have run like well oiled machines, friendly faces and helping hands all around. Others have been run like the classroom of a preschool teacher’s worst nightmare. … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Rants Tagged: bdsm, community, consent, decisions, female domination, FemDom, rants

Marvelous multiples

May 21, 2012 by d20domme 1 Comment

I always seem to find the perfect guy…when I’m already in a relationship. Being the good person that I am I don’t cheat. No. I’ve never cheated. I’ve been cheated on but have never cheated. Instead I resort to the agonizing internal self-infliction—the “What if” game. What if I were single?What if I got drunk … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, decisions, emotions, FemDom, poly, polyamory, polyandry, relationships, thinking

It’s not me, it’s you

March 28, 2012 by d20domme 4 Comments

When do you get rest and relaxation in the scene when you’re searching for someone? As a dominant I often hold my breath after meeting someone new and taking them into my life. I never know if it will work out, what struggles we’ll encounter, or how we’ll actually mesh up together once we bring … [Read more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, break-up, decisions, end, FemDom, mr dickless, obedience, perspective, questions, topping from the bottom, trust

Rules are meant to be broken…and so is your ass

April 21, 2011 by d20domme 11 Comments

I want to see you. The five words stared up at me from my phone, silently beckoning me to me respond. But I ignored it for two days. Please see me. This text 48 hours later seemed more honest. He was begging and I liked that as I was deciding whether or not to ignore … [Read more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal Tagged: Congressman, decisions, female domination, FemDom, forgiveness, male submission, panties, play, punishment, spanking, submission

Breasts, can’t live with them….or can you?

November 30, 2010 by d20domme 4 Comments

I’ve nicknamed my breasts “Thelma & Louise” (bet you can’t guess which is which!) because these girls are always getting me in trouble. When I first started to “develop” I was big into sports and soccer was a favorite of mine. I was the short, wide-shouldered girl who played defense and was nicknamed “The Wall”. … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Thoughts Tagged: breasts, decisions, family, life, questions, ramblings, thinking

Married without children

November 18, 2010 by d20domme 6 Comments

I use to have another blog on this site that I used primarily for meticulously detailed information on how I was training my sub at the time. While I found it fun at the time it sort of petered out once we broke up and I haven’t updated it since. I was contemplating whether or … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Thoughts Tagged: anger, bdsm, bitchy, D/s, decisions, female domination, ideas, lies, life, marriage

What women want

September 16, 2010 by d20domme 2 Comments

…I actually don’t know what all women want, I only know what this woman wants. I have finally come to terms with what exactly I really want. Many of the things in my life have fallen into place except men. With me, men and relationships have always been an exhilarating roller coaster. I’ve been through … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, D/s, dating, decisions, FemDom, fetishes, ideas, relationships

MonoPoly: Passing Go or Straight To Jail?

May 11, 2010 by d20domme 4 Comments

A lot of people are curious about my relationship status and how I maintain in general the relationships I am involved in. I’ve found that “MonoPoly” is a new buzz word that’s been making its way around the scene. After learning a bit more about it I suppose my lifestyle would fit into its category. … [Read more…]

Posted in: Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: acceptance, bf, decisions, MonoPoly, poly, polyamory, relationships, self-reflection, thinking
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