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Inner child in the outer world

June 5, 2025 by d20domme

For years, I thought My need to be in control in BDSM was purely about preference and personality. I have always been strong-willed and not quiet about My feelings (unsurprisingly!). It wasn’t until I started therapy in My early 20’s that I realized how much My childhood shaped this dynamic. Growing up in a emotionally … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Relationships Tagged: age play, community, D/s, female domination, FemDom, inner child, relationships, self awareness, thinking

Lock & Learn: Essential Safety Tips for Chastity

September 30, 2024 by d20domme

It’s that time of year again… It’s LOCK-FRIGGIN-TOBER!! *clears throat* Apologies. As you all may know, I am obsessed with a chastity play. I am a bit fanatical with chastity play. 95% of the partners I’ve played with and had serve Me over the years, were required to enforced chastity in some way or another. … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Relationships Tagged: chastity, chastity play, cuckolding, female led relationship, FemDom, feminization, key holding, Locktober, male chastity, Patreon, safety, sissies, sissification, submission

I am my own Primary

April 5, 2024 by d20domme

Hierarchy. Reading the simple noun alone might elicit a physical and automatic reaction. Did it for you? For some people, the hatred for hierarchy runs deep. Despite that, we see hierarchies play out every day in our vanilla lives. Hierarchies often play a part to determine an individual’s or group’s status, privilege, and access to … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Relationships Tagged: bdsm, D/s, ENM, female domination, FemDom, hierarchy, polyamory, polyandry, relationships

Addicted to love: NRC addiction

May 5, 2023 by d20domme

I know a lot of junkies. Not your typical run of the mill junkies that you might be thinking of. No. I’m talking about the kind that are a seemingly common staple in the kinky and/or polyamory community: NRC addicts. Let’s be honest with ourselves, we’re all here for the endorphins. Each and every one … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Relationships Tagged: bdsm, Brains, D/s, New Relationship Energy, NRC, NRE, psychology, relationships, thinking

The ‘Golden Ticket’ to submission

March 5, 2023 by d20domme Leave a Comment

“Greetings to you, the lucky finder of this Golden Ticket, from Mistress d20domme! I spank you warmly on the bottom! Tremendous things are in store for you! Many wonderful surprises await you!“ If you’re American, you are no doubt familiar with the tale of Roald Dahl’s 1964 novel ‘Charlie and the Chocolate Factory‘. Willy Wonka, the founder of … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Relationships Tagged: bdsm, community, D/s, domination, FemDom, relationships, self awareness, submission

I am a psychological vigilante

February 6, 2023 by d20domme Leave a Comment

I recently heard this term in a vanilla setting, made as a passing ‘scoffing’ comment and it really stuck with me. Let me be honest, it struck a chord with my Femdom loins. Why did it excite me? If I had to describe what a psychological vigilante was and why I embody it, that’s easy. … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, D/s, dominantion, FemDom, mental health, relationships

Avoiding Dominant Drain™

January 5, 2023 by d20domme

The new year is upon us and with that usually comes aspects of change – change that we are excited for, but change nonetheless. But…if you’re a self torturing-masochist like myself, it may mean laying the next layer to the foundation of your ideal 24/7 LIFEstyle. For years I have put in the time and … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Relationships Tagged: bdsm, communication, D/s, fatigue, relationships, self care

Locktober: The pornography pitfall

October 5, 2022 by d20domme

As a longtime advocate and participant of Locktober as a Keyholder (and self-locked one year, for science!), chastity isn’t new to me. The pros and cons aren’t at all hard to discern. However, when I first became aware of it, I only knew it from a vanilla context to rebuild trust after cheating. The more … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Relationships Tagged: chastity, female led relationship, Locktober, male chastity, relationships, sexuality

Paint me like one of ‘yours’

August 5, 2022 by d20domme

As I looked down at him writhing in purposefully bargained for pain I couldn’t help thinking to myself… ‘One year ago I started the search for a slave and with his helpless body beneath me, I could say it was worth the wait thus far.‘ Was he “the” slave? The one I’ve been cautiously creating … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, D/s, female domination, male submission, primal, slave
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