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Me. Me. Me?

August 24, 2018 by d20domme Leave a Comment

Me. The Mistress. The Femdom wife. The girlfriend. The committed nesting partner. Me. You would think with a slew of labels like that it would really be all about me though wouldn’t it? But today as I made the same, short drive I make at least a dozen times a week from my boyfriend’s house … [Read more…]

Posted in: Thoughts Tagged: 24/7, acceptance, bdsm, challenges, decisions, doubts, emotions, mental health, motivation, perspective, self-care, self-reflection, thinking

I assaulted someone I love

June 1, 2018 by d20domme Leave a Comment

My puppy is back and it’s been an adjustment for us both. I couldn’t help but chuckle softly as I was watched him express genuine over-the-top anger at the video game he was currently playing as he cursed and threw down the controller. It made me laugh until I caught myself mid thought, ‘He needs … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: 24/7, aggression, anger, apologies, arguments, boundaries, challenges, communication, consent, domestic violence, female led relationship, self awareness, thinking, violation

Counting the days

April 5, 2018 by d20domme Leave a Comment

In the next week or so I will be returning home and I will be reunited with my fiance and my Mistress. I spent all of last year living with her, thousands of miles from home, being trained and moulded to be the best submissive I could be. The list of training topics we covered … [Read more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: 24/7, female led relationship, ldr, long distance, love, puppy, relationship, thinking

Rant: The Disposable Domme™

March 1, 2018 by d20domme Leave a Comment

You’re not a good dominant if you don’t have a way to make ends meet.You’re not a good dominant if you’re free loading on friends or family.You’re not a good dominant if you don’t have control of your own life. I know that sounds harsh and comes off as elitist but it’s my honest opinion. … [Read more…]

Posted in: Rants Tagged: bdsm, domination, female domination, FemDom, rant, safety, self awareness, self-reflection, submission, thinking

Is anyone still having fun?

January 17, 2018 by d20domme Leave a Comment
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I never like to get on my high horse and it’s part of the reason I’ve kept quiet up until now but silent I can no longer be. This is a growing issue not only in my own local community but across the whole of BDSM communities alike. It’s an issue that is increasingly giving … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community Tagged: bdsm, community, consent, negotiation, play, safety, thinking, violation

Only boring people get bored

November 27, 2017 by d20domme Leave a Comment

“Only boring people get bored,” my Mom would say to me as a child. I took that to heart as a youngling and made it a philosophy to live by. Anytime I felt ‘bored’ in or by life I found a way to rouse myself out of the funk. This didn’t always end well but it … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, female domination, FemDom, ldr, puppy, self-reflection, thinking

Love yourself: Full frontal Mistress

February 16, 2017 by d20domme Leave a Comment

There’s no one I love more than myself.  I don’t say that to come across as an asshole, I say that because it’s the person I spend the most time with. The one whose mind I get to run rampant through and who I lie awake with each night. Just having passed that day that … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community Tagged: acceptance, bdsm, challenges, female domination, FemDom, friends, love, thinking, valentine's day

A state of flux

November 17, 2016 by d20domme 3 Comments

These were pictures of someone not even remotely like me. A message indicating that a transaction had taken place. I didn’t want to panic, I just wanted answers. I’ve heard that if you tell a lie once all your truths become questionable. This to me sounds reasonable. When we lie, we are stealing social commodity … [Read more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: 24/7, acceptance, cheating, female led relationship, FemDom, forgiveness, male submission, puppy, relationships, thinking

Good things cum to those who wait

October 18, 2016 by d20domme 2 Comments

“I placed another ad this afternoon”, she casually said aloud.”An ad for what Mistress?” I asked unsure if I wanted the answer.”For cuckolding, and I’ve had over 35 responses already”. 7:00 pmThat was on Sunday evening, now on Friday evening Mistress is on a date with a potential bull as I sit and wait in … [Read more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: cuckolding, female domination, male submission, puppy, small penis, thinking
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