I never like to get on my high horse and it’s part of the reason I’ve kept quiet up until now but silent I can no longer be. This is a growing issue not only in my own local community but across the whole of BDSM communities alike. It’s an issue that is increasingly giving … [Read more…]
Last month while I was in London, puppy and I were lucky enough to sit down with the lovely Floss and BakjiBen. Those two were a blast to get off on tangents with haha. We discussed: How to stay connected long distance Rituals and chasity UK vs US kink scene and community Geeky stuff Rope, … [Read more…]
Seriously. I’m not trying to be hateful, just honest. I’ve had the pleasure (mostly) of being able to be a part of local BDSM communities around the world. Some have run like well oiled machines, friendly faces and helping hands all around. Others have been run like the classroom of a preschool teacher’s worst nightmare. … [Read more…]
Our second episode covers different kinky roles and good places on the web to meet fellow kinksters. I’ll also answer one Kinky Question of The Day (KQOTD) from a reader. Here are the podcast highlights… ** 00:32 – Different kinky roles and their distinctions ** 14:32 – Where are the best places on the web … [Read more…]
In the beginning when I went on a blog hiatus six months ago I felt fevered. I needed to get back to my roots in kink and delve deeper than I ever had before. I needed to feel that unbridled desire again. “Am I hurting you pet?” I asked my fresh faced submissive. “No Miss,” … [Read more…]
It’s been almost two months since my last update. There are several reasons for this but mainly it’s a deeply personal issue of a mid-kink identity crisis and I haven’t figured out how to share it with you guys until today. I’ve come to notice it’s not as easy as, “I think therefore I am” … [Read more…]
I love kink but I’m not in love with kink…not anymore at least. I’m sure that feeling will come back in time but for now, I just feel sort of “meh” about the whole thing. My friends on the other hand—well that’s a different story. I’ve noticed that when I meet people who were recently … [Read more…]