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Unapologetically elitist

June 5, 2022 by d20domme

I’ve cleared my spam box, especially for this post, as I know I’m going to illicit some strong emotions in some readers. I have a very specific way of doing my kink. It manifests as high protocol, extreme structure, decedent clothing, trips, and fetish wear, expensive toys, and yes, invasive rules that I try to … [Read more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal Tagged: bdsm, community, cool kids, D/s, elite, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, thinking

Guest of Kink in the Chain

May 5, 2022 by d20domme

Not too long ago I had a chat on the podcast Kink in the Chains with host, Rope Squirrel. Our conversation touched on a little of some of my most favorite kink topics such as… Forced chastity Pacing yourself in kink Navigating kink as a POC As well as answering some listener questions Hear all … [Read more…]

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: community, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, fetishes, Kink in the Chain, lifestyle, opinion, podcast, Q&A, thoughts

Rant: Poly =/= ‘Open for business’

February 7, 2022 by d20domme

Poly people, sit down, *whew*, let’s have a chat. Oh wait, let me dial the ENM participants in as well, they’ll want to hear this. Yes, I know they’re new around here but this is for them too. Everyone here? Great, get comfortable, but not too comfortable, as that seems to be part of the … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Rants, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: community, ENM, ethical non monogamy, FemDom, poly, polyamory, polyandry, rant, relationships, thinking

Guest of What Women and Other Wonderful Humans Want

October 28, 2021 by d20domme

This month I sat down and chatted with some amazing humans by the name of Miss Melody Pond and HiThereCatsuit a.k.a. Jon, for a feature on What Women and Other Wonderful Humans Want. A few lightning rounds of kinky questions before we dove in and discussed…. Our humble beginnings as Femdoms Geekdoms Holding space as … [Read more…]

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: community, dating kinky, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, fetishes, geeks, lifestyle, nerds, nookie notes, opinion, podcast, Q&A, thoughts, what women and other wonderful humans want

Guest of Kinky Cocktail Hour: A POC Femdom Journey

June 20, 2020 by d20domme

I had the pleasure of having a virtual drink and chat with the duo Lady Petra and SafferMaster of Kinky Cocktail Hour while they sipped a very delicious looking Mojito. They claim I am the busiest Domme in the Universe but they clearly don’t know how many, many naps I take in between everything haha. … [Read more…]

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: community, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, kinky cocktail hour, lifestyle, opinion, podcast, Q&A, self awareness, thoughts

#BlackLivesMatter

June 5, 2020 by d20domme

Right now is a particularly difficult and tragic time for the black community in the United States of America. The world is watching us fail our black and POC citizens across the board. There’s a message bigger than any kink topics I can offer this month. I am sharing an infographic for those of you … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Femdom, Personal Journal, Rants, Thoughts Tagged: allies, black lives matter, blm, change, community, inequality, PoC, racism, reality, resources, support

Guest of Aunt Suzie’s Sex-Cast: Deeper Into Femdom

April 20, 2020 by d20domme

I hung out with the fabulous Aunt Suzie and her producer Ashlen this month. This was a live interview with questions from listeners about Femdomming, and BDSM lifestyles or just about anything you can think of when it comes to being in the BDSM Community. We chatted about kink lifestyle, hottest moments, and strangest and … [Read more…]

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: aunt suzie, community, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, fetishes, lifestyle, opinion, podcast, polyamory, Q&A, self awareness, thoughts

Rant: Fight for your community

April 5, 2020 by d20domme

Long before the virus broke fully out, I had my own ideas about social gatherings, touching, close quarter playing and more. To be honest, I don’t really like being in an enclosed space with sweaty people and body fluids. Beyond my general dislike for my own sweat, let alone someone else’s, I’ve witnessed quite a … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Rants Tagged: bdsm, community, dangerous, pandemic, predators, rant, support, thoughts

Less labels more talking

August 26, 2019 by d20domme

As humans we have an innate obsession with placing labels on everything, including ourselves. Labels help give people a false sense of order and a way to separate things. However, we aren’t things; we’re people first and heavily using labels to categorize people isn’t fair. It takes away the depth and complexity each of us … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, boundaries, communication, community, interpersonal, labels, nlp, opinion, respect, self awareness, social, thoughts, words
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