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The Initiation Ritual

May 5, 2025 by d20domme Leave a Comment

I’ve been a spanko since, well, forever! This is one of the few fetishes I enjoy giving and receiving. So it’s no surprise that I incorporate impact play as an “initiation ritual” for someone new I play. I consider it is a first step to serving Me. Why do I like impact play with new … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal Tagged: bdsm, D/s, FemDom, newbie, spanking, submission

Rant: Naming Power

July 5, 2024 by d20domme

I am be ranting but follow me… Ever since I was a kid, I hated my name. Genuinely distasted being called it. My parents thought it would a great idea to combine their two names (I see you other Black families!). In theory this can work, in practice it usually ends up feeling forced. I … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Rants Tagged: BDSM community, community, d20domme, FemDom, Names, newbie, relationships, thinking

The caliber of a Fem(dom)

October 27, 2019 by d20domme

I won’t bore you with the usual caution to not trust just anyone, no matter the size of their toybag. I will, however, share with you some things I’ve cultivated and strived for over the years to become what I consider, a Femdom of respectable caliber. It varies greatly when we get to the specific … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Femdom Tagged: bdsm, consent, domination, FemDom, newbie, submission, thoughts

Guest of KinkyCast: What Next? BDSM 101 (Part II)

January 29, 2017 by d20domme

We’re back with Woody (and the Beast!) of KinkyCast as delve further into what to do as you’re finding your way in a new community. Such as: It’s up live now, so please give it a listen!

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: advice, bdsm, female domination, FemDom, kinkycast, male submission, newbie, Podcasts, safeword

Guest of KinkyCast: BDSM 101 (Part I)

November 4, 2016 by d20domme

A while back we were asked to speak on podcast KinkyCast and it was a no brainer that we wanted to be involved. As a guest of Woody’s we discuss: It’s up live now, so please give it a listen!

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: acceptance, bdsm, female domination, FemDom, kinkycast, male submission, meeting new people, newbie, Podcasts, vetting
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