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The caliber of a Fem(dom)

October 27, 2019 by d20domme

I won’t bore you with the usual caution to not trust just anyone, no matter the size of their toybag. I will, however, share with you some things I’ve cultivated and strived for over the years to become what I consider, a Femdom of respectable caliber. It varies greatly when we get to the specific … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Femdom Tagged: bdsm, consent, domination, FemDom, newbie, submission, thoughts

I assaulted someone I love

June 1, 2018 by d20domme

My puppy is back and it’s been an adjustment for us both. I couldn’t help but chuckle softly as I was watched him express genuine over-the-top anger at the video game he was currently playing as he cursed and threw down the controller. It made me laugh until I caught myself mid thought, ‘He needs … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: 24/7, aggression, anger, apologies, arguments, boundaries, challenges, communication, consent, domestic violence, female led relationship, self awareness, thinking, violation

Is anyone still having fun?

January 17, 2018 by d20domme
Courtesy of https://www.lovetreats.in

I never like to get on my high horse and it’s part of the reason I’ve kept quiet up until now but silent I can no longer be. This is a growing issue not only in my own local community but across the whole of BDSM communities alike. It’s an issue that is increasingly giving … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community Tagged: bdsm, community, consent, negotiation, play, safety, thinking, violation

Rant: Fuck your community

April 20, 2016 by d20domme

Seriously. I’m not trying to be hateful, just honest. I’ve had the pleasure (mostly) of being able to be a part of local BDSM communities around the world. Some have run like well oiled machines, friendly faces and helping hands all around. Others have been run like the classroom of a preschool teacher’s worst nightmare. … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Rants Tagged: bdsm, community, consent, decisions, female domination, FemDom, rants

Her pleasure = My priority

March 29, 2016 by Her puppy

WHORE. The word was marked across my chest like a badge of honor instead of the negative insult it can sometimes be seen as. I knew that night I was going to be treated like Mistress’s whore. After a day of kinky shopping, “plans” as she likes to call them had been placed in motion. … [Read more…]

Posted in: Contributions Tagged: consent, dominance, dungeon, female domination, FemDom, male submission, overpower, puppy

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