I won’t bore you with the usual caution to not trust just anyone, no matter the size of their toybag. I will, however, share with you some things I’ve cultivated and strived for over the years to become what I consider, a Femdom of respectable caliber. It varies greatly when we get to the specific … [Read more…]
My puppy is back and it’s been an adjustment for us both. I couldn’t help but chuckle softly as I was watched him express genuine over-the-top anger at the video game he was currently playing as he cursed and threw down the controller. It made me laugh until I caught myself mid thought, ‘He needs … [Read more…]
I never like to get on my high horse and it’s part of the reason I’ve kept quiet up until now but silent I can no longer be. This is a growing issue not only in my own local community but across the whole of BDSM communities alike. It’s an issue that is increasingly giving … [Read more…]
Seriously. I’m not trying to be hateful, just honest. I’ve had the pleasure (mostly) of being able to be a part of local BDSM communities around the world. Some have run like well oiled machines, friendly faces and helping hands all around. Others have been run like the classroom of a preschool teacher’s worst nightmare. … [Read more…]
WHORE. The word was marked across my chest like a badge of honor instead of the negative insult it can sometimes be seen as. I knew that night I was going to be treated like Mistress’s whore. After a day of kinky shopping, “plans” as she likes to call them had been placed in motion. … [Read more…]
This week we will discuss consent, consent violations, and consensual non-consent, scene names and how to keep yourself/identity protected, as well as… Kinky Question of The Day Next week’s topics: Poly, mono-poly, and navigating the scene as a non-poly person Consent linksConsent & BDSM: The State of Law
