safety – From Mundane To Mistress

Rant: The Disposable Domme™

March 1, 2018 by Natali Noir Leave a Comment

You’re not a good dominant if you don’t have a way to make ends meet. You’re not a good dominant if you’re free loading on friends or family. You’re not a good dominant if you don’t have control of your own life. I know that sounds harsh and comes off as elitist but it’s my … [Read more…]

Is anyone still having fun?

January 17, 2018 by Natali Noir Leave a Comment

I never like to get on my high horse and it’s part of the reason I’ve kept quiet up until now but silent I can no longer be. This is a growing issue not only in my own local community but across the whole of BDSM communities alike. It’s an issue that is increasingly giving … [Read more…]