I don’t like jokes like this but I do love to laugh. Despite my best efforts, I am a giggler. It doesn’t matter how intense a scene or my hands-on play gets, I can cackle at whatever reaction I am getting from my partner if it delights me. The louder, more vocal and expressive they … [Read more…]
Me. The Mistress. The Femdom wife. The girlfriend. The committed nesting partner. Me. You would think with a slew of labels like that it would really be all about me though wouldn’t it? But today as I made the same, short drive I make at least a dozen times a week from my boyfriend’s house … [Read more…]
Well I think it’s fair to say 2017 has been one of the more interesting and eventful years of my life. While it hasn’t quite matched 2016 for the sheer level of kink, it’s certainly made up for that in dramatics. 2016 was the year I made the trip across the ocean to enter stage … [Read more…]
‘Only boring people get bored’ my Mom would say to me as a child. I took that to heart as a youngling and made it a philosophy to live by. Anytime I felt ‘bored’ in or by life I found a way to rouse myself out of the funk. This didn’t always end well but it … [Read more…]
After my last entry I took some time with the boy to talk about where we were going and where we had been with our kinky interactions for the past couple of years. If I was being honest with myself I expected a certain level of protocol and discipline that I knew he wasn’t delivering … [Read more…]
The boy has asked for more D/s in his life. I’ve been cautiously giving him a little taste here and there hoping to tide him over until I decide if he’s ready for a full course meal. He has now told me he is hungry and he has a craving. Externally he can handle nearly … [Read more…]
Day 25: How open are you about your kinks? I’m relatively open about who I am and what I do in general. I don’t hide my kink but I don’t advertise it either. I make it a point to not be “ashamed” of it. For me it’s a natural part of my sexuality. I find … [Read more…]
Day 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves? My main peeve is when people take themselves too seriously in my opinion. A shining example of that is the slahes of Y/your, Dom/me, etc and the self capitalization and de-capitalization of things such as My, Her, Him, Dominant, etc. It just makes me think they are trying too … [Read more…]
Day 12: Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had. If you haven’t had one, talk about aspects of kink/BDSM you find funny. One of the first play parties I attended was a highly private event. It was by invite only and I wanted to impress everyone there (especially the hostess). I was particularly … [Read more…]