Being a person of color who enjoys BDSM can be an isolating experience—but that shouldn’t be the case. We have the same rights as everyone to indulge in our deepest sexual desires and receive support through other POC and allies as well. This month I ramble on about… Being POC and Kinky Inclusion facilitating exclusion … [Read more…]
It can be hard to say what you want and need but it is important to draw lines in the sand about what your boundaries are. This month I will discuss just what that looks like for me… My personal/kink boundaries Kinky Question of The Day Next podcast topics: Being POC in kink, finding your … [Read more…]
I look around the room and wonder… Does anyone in here know what a true break from this all means? It’s an ironic observation as I, myself, stand up on a stage in front of nearly 100 fellow kinksters, ready to speak on a kinky topic. I feel like a fraud whenever this happens (as … [Read more…]
Over the years there have been kinks that I wholeheartedly threw myself into and absolutely hated (bootblacking). There’s ones I was sure I would loathe but ended up loving (spitting) and there are some that just wormed their way through my kinky cracks, like ASMR that I haven’t been able to stop being fascinated with. … [Read more…]
Need to know more about polyamory and how it works within the scene? Take a listen for this and other thoughts this week such as… How to find your way in the community as a poly or non-poly kinkster Kinky Question of The Day Next podcast topics: Embrace your role without roleplaying and finding those … [Read more…]
This week we will dive straight into understanding subspace, subdrop and the importance of aftercare/aftercare techniques as well as… Identifying and establishing hard and soft limits Kinky Question of The Day Next week’s topics: Consent violation and maintaining privacy while in the scene Like it, love it, spank it:
This episode covers different kinky roles and good places on the web to meet fellow kinksters, different kinky roles and their distinctions, and also… Where are the best places on the web to meet fellow kinksters Kinky Question of The Day Next week’s topics: Subspace, sub drop and aftercare, hard and soft limits and how … [Read more…]
Join me on my very first episode of From Mundane To Mistress (FMTM) as I introduce you to the 50 Shades Effect, staying safe in your local community and also… Difference between being kinky or just being freaky? Kinky Question of The Day Next week’s topics: Various kink roles and places around the web to … [Read more…]
