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Fade into the background

September 5, 2024 by d20domme

i had just finished getting ready for bed when Mistress came into the room and asked me if i had enough energy to have some fun.  Even if i was much more tired than i was, the answer would have still been an automatic and enthusiastic “Yes!” “Good” Mistress said “A deal has been struck … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal Tagged: bdsm, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, male submission, pet, polyandry, puppy, queening, slave, threesome

D/s service building from within

May 5, 2024 by d20domme

If you don’t know already… I. Love. Service. Submission. When I first stepped into the world of kink, the biggest draw for me aside from sexual growth was the desire to be catered to. The classical imagery of Femdoms with their feet up, a constantly topped up glass in their hand, massages on demand, attentiveness … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom Tagged: D/s, domestic servitude, female domination, FemDom, male submission, service submission, skills, thinking

The Alpha pet Femdom

November 5, 2023 by d20domme

“I access my ‘Alpha’ pet side’ when needed during a scene,” I said to the class and their collective eyes widened in surprise. “So as a pet you are a Domme? Like issuing commands and such?” one submissive male asked with hesitation. “Yes depends on how we’re playing. I don’t always use words during that … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom Tagged: bdsm, experience, FemDom, kitty, myth, perspective, pet play, primal, puppy, submission, topping

I am a psychological vigilante

February 6, 2023 by d20domme Leave a Comment

I recently heard this term in a vanilla setting, made as a passing ‘scoffing’ comment and it really stuck with me. Let me be honest, it struck a chord with my Femdom loins. Why did it excite me? If I had to describe what a psychological vigilante was and why I embody it, that’s easy. … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, D/s, dominantion, FemDom, mental health, relationships

Secret submissive training sauce

July 5, 2022 by d20domme

On my quest for a new slave (is this even the right title for what I am seeking?), I have been taking my time finalizing my desires and digging deep into my expectations. I’ve been asking myself, what specifically I’m seeking and what the process will look like to fine tune a human to my … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom Tagged: bdsm, D/s, female domination, FemDom, submissive training, thinking, training

Unapologetically elitist

June 5, 2022 by d20domme

I’ve cleared my spam box, especially for this post, as I know I’m going to illicit some strong emotions in some readers. I have a very specific way of doing my kink. It manifests as high protocol, extreme structure, decedent clothing, trips, and fetish wear, expensive toys, and yes, invasive rules that I try to … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal Tagged: bdsm, community, cool kids, D/s, elite, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, thinking

To live is to change, is to grow

January 5, 2022 by d20domme

It’s a new year and as we all like to pretend it’s time for change. Real change this time, right?Whether you like it or not, it is as Heraclitus said, ‘Nothing is permanent except change.’ It’s inevitable. So why do we hate it so much or fight it when it’s presented to us? Simply put, … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, D/s, female led relationship, FemDom, kink, male submission, polyamory, relationships, slave, thinking

Novices need not apply

December 5, 2021 by d20domme

Well, this is my personal decree that I am, as of this year, 100% done playing with newbies in the kink community. I know that sounds harsh and elitist but, that’s my preference now. Blame stupid boys for being stupid. After years and years of painstakingly meeting new submissives, coddling cucks, cultivating what appears to … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Femdom, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, ego, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, male submission, relationships, self awareness, thinking, vanilla

Locktober: Logistics

October 1, 2021 by d20domme

Have you missed me? Have you survived? Thrived? Barely both? Hang in there, things are looking up in this crazy new world of ours. While I am still taking a much needed break from fulltime kink, I can’t resist the subby siren call of Locktober. As you all know, Locktober is the most wonderful time … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom Tagged: bdsm, chastity, female domination, FemDom, Locktober, male chastity, male submission
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