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I am my own Primary

April 5, 2024 by d20domme

Hierarchy. Reading the simple noun alone might elicit a physical and automatic reaction. Did it for you? For some people, the hatred for hierarchy runs deep. Despite that, we see hierarchies play out every day in our vanilla lives. Hierarchies often play a part to determine an individual’s or group’s status, privilege, and access to … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Relationships Tagged: bdsm, D/s, ENM, female domination, FemDom, hierarchy, polyamory, polyandry, relationships

Down the primrose path…

August 5, 2023 by d20domme

Mommies don’t cry.Mommies don’t cry.Mommies don’t… I couldn’t even finish my own self soothing mantra as I held back tears. I glanced at myself in the visor mirror between watching the busy highway. ‘I’m going to lose my Mommy‘ I kept hearing his voice say on repeat in my head. I knew I would have … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal Tagged: break-up, choosing, communication, dating, decisions, emotions, heartbroken, life, love, MDlb, MonoPoly, poly, polyamory, polyandry, relationship, self-reflection, The Gardner

Guest of What Excites Us!: Hypnoplay

April 5, 2023 by d20domme

Some of my favorite kind of podcasts to chat on, are the ones where there is no one topic, the training wheels are off and you and the host are taking each other for a kinky-test drive out into the open audible world. That’s what chatting with Gwyn Issacs of the What Excites Us! was … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: 24/7, D/s, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, fetishes, lifestyle, male submission, opinion, Podcasts, poly, polyamory, polyandry, Q&A, slave, thoughts, what excites us

Rant: Poly =/= ‘Open for business’

February 7, 2022 by d20domme

Poly people, sit down, *whew*, let’s have a chat. Oh wait, let me dial the ENM participants in as well, they’ll want to hear this. Yes, I know they’re new around here but this is for them too. Everyone here? Great, get comfortable, but not too comfortable, as that seems to be part of the … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Rants, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: community, ENM, ethical non monogamy, FemDom, poly, polyamory, polyandry, rant, relationships, thinking

To live is to change, is to grow

January 5, 2022 by d20domme

It’s a new year and as we all like to pretend it’s time for change. Real change this time, right?Whether you like it or not, it is as Heraclitus said, ‘Nothing is permanent except change.’ It’s inevitable. So why do we hate it so much or fight it when it’s presented to us? Simply put, … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, D/s, female led relationship, FemDom, kink, male submission, polyamory, relationships, slave, thinking

I was raised as an only Queen

September 5, 2020 by d20domme

I was raised essentially as an only child in mindset and environment. I have been wanting to write about this a lot more lately but haven’t been sure on where to start. The past few years have been extremely eye-opening, self aware and hopefully filled with opportunities to grow both inside and outside of the … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: emotions, female led relationship, flr, lifestyle, MonoPoly, poly, polyamory, polyandry, relationships

Guest of Aunt Suzie’s Sex-Cast: Deeper Into Femdom

April 20, 2020 by d20domme

I hung out with the fabulous Aunt Suzie and her producer Ashlen this month. This was a live interview with questions from listeners about Femdomming, and BDSM lifestyles or just about anything you can think of when it comes to being in the BDSM Community. We chatted about kink lifestyle, hottest moments, and strangest and … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: aunt suzie, community, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, fetishes, lifestyle, opinion, Podcasts, polyamory, Q&A, self awareness, thoughts

Happy Polydays!

December 13, 2019 by d20domme

Tis the season…For disaster? For long distance trips? Putting up with family members you only see once a year? No, not those things (though they certainly don’t help), I mean the very hectic and stressful Polyday Season™. The time of the year where I consider just signing out of Google Calendar and letting it all … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Personal Journal Tagged: advice, family, friends, holiday, love, poly, polyamory, relationships, thinking, thoughts, tips

Guest of Talkin’ Taboo: Truths of A Femdom

June 15, 2019 by d20domme

A while ago, I was a guest of Sadie’s on her podcast Talkin’ Taboo. We had a lovely chat (as well as a her bio-pup sneaking in!) about a lot of the truths I live with as the type of Femdom I am. We chatted about… Listen to our convo here and give it a listen!

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: community, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, fetishes, opinion, plus size, PoC, Podcasts, polyamory, polyandry, Sadie, self awareness, talkin taboo, thoughts
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