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Rant: Poly =/= ‘Open for business’

February 7, 2022 by d20domme

Poly people, sit down, *whew*, let’s have a chat. Oh wait, let me dial the ENM participants in as well, they’ll want to hear this. Yes, I know they’re new around here but this is for them too. Everyone here? Great, get comfortable, but not too comfortable, as that seems to be part of the … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Rants, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: community, ENM, ethical non monogamy, FemDom, poly, polyamory, polyandry, rant, relationships, thinking

To live is to change, is to grow

January 5, 2022 by d20domme

It’s a new year and as we all like to pretend it’s time for change. Real change this time, right?Whether you like it or not, it is as Heraclitus said, ‘Nothing is permanent except change.’ It’s inevitable. So why do we hate it so much or fight it when it’s presented to us? Simply put, … [Read more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, D/s, female led relationship, FemDom, kink, male submission, polyamory, relationships, slave, thinking

I was raised as an only Queen

September 5, 2020 by d20domme

I was raised essentially as an only child in mindset and environment. I have been wanting to write about this a lot more lately but haven’t been sure on where to start. The past few years have been extremely eye-opening, self aware and hopefully filled with opportunities to grow both inside and outside of the … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: emotions, female led relationship, flr, lifestyle, MonoPoly, poly, polyamory, polyandry, relationships

Guest of Aunt Suzie’s Sex-Cast: Deeper Into Femdom

April 20, 2020 by d20domme

I hung out with the fabulous Aunt Suzie and her producer Ashlen this month. This was a live interview with questions from listeners about Femdomming, and BDSM lifestyles or just about anything you can think of when it comes to being in the BDSM Community. We chatted about kink lifestyle, hottest moments, and strangest and … [Read more…]

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: aunt suzie, community, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, fetishes, lifestyle, opinion, podcast, polyamory, Q&A, self awareness, thoughts

Happy Polydays!

December 13, 2019 by d20domme

Tis the season…For disaster? For long distance trips? Putting up with family members you only see once a year? No, not those things (though they certainly don’t help), I mean the very hectic and stressful Polyday Season™. The time of the year where I consider just signing out of Google Calendar and letting it all … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Personal Journal Tagged: advice, family, friends, holiday, love, poly, polyamory, relationships, thinking, thoughts, tips

Guest of Talkin’ Taboo: Truths of A Femdom

June 15, 2019 by d20domme

A while ago, I was a guest of Sadie’s on her podcast Talkin’ Taboo. We had a lovely chat (as well as a her bio-pup sneaking in!) about a lot of the truths I live with as the type of Femdom I am. We chatted about… My local kink community Viewpoints as a POC and … [Read more…]

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: community, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, fetishes, opinion, plus size, PoC, podcast, polyamory, polyandry, Sadie, self awareness, talkin taboo, thoughts

Guest of Erotic Awakening: Polyandry 101

March 21, 2019 by d20domme

Last month I took a few minutes to speak with Dan an Dawn of Erotic Awakening and Beyond The Love. They’re the original big thinkers behind the annual 3-day polyamory convention in Columbus, Ohio. Check it out if you are curious or identify as polyamorous for “Education, workshops, social activities, meeting other polyamory people and more”. In 2017 … [Read more…]

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: beyond the love, communication, dan, dawn, discussion, erotic awakening, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, MonoPoly, podcast, poly, polyamory, polyandry, relationships, self awareness, thoughts

A sadist & a sensualist walk into a bar…

February 2, 2019 by d20domme

I don’t like jokes like this but I do love to laugh. Despite my best efforts, I am a giggler. It doesn’t matter how intense a scene or my hands-on play gets, I can cackle at whatever reaction I am getting from my partner if it delights me. The louder, more vocal and expressive they … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: communication, conscious, cross dress, happiness, love, play, polyamory, self awareness, self-reflection, sensualism, sensualist, sexual touch, tantra, The Gardner

Marvelous multiples

May 21, 2012 by d20domme

I always seem to find the perfect guy…when I’m already in a relationship. Being the good person that I am I don’t cheat. No. I’ve never cheated. I’ve been cheated on but have never cheated. Instead I resort to the agonizing internal self-infliction—the “What if” game. What if I were single?What if I got drunk … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, decisions, emotions, FemDom, poly, polyamory, polyandry, relationships, thinking
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