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Down the primrose path…

August 5, 2023 by d20domme

Mommies don’t cry.Mommies don’t cry.Mommies don’t… I couldn’t even finish my own self soothing mantra as I held back tears. I glanced at myself in the visor mirror between watching the busy highway. ‘I’m going to lose my Mommy‘ I kept hearing his voice say on repeat in my head. I knew I would have … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal Tagged: break-up, choosing, communication, dating, decisions, emotions, heartbroken, life, love, MDlb, MonoPoly, poly, polyamory, polyandry, relationship, self-reflection, The Gardner

Keep your standards too high

March 5, 2022 by d20domme

Keep your standards too high I’ve been told on more than one occasion… ‘Wow you have really high standards.’ or ‘Maybe your standards are too high.’ The thing is, I don’t believe in having “too high standards”. I believe in unrealistic standards – they can be high, low, or just shit. Over the years in … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: D/s, dating, FemDom, love, relationships, self awareness, self love, submission, thinking

Personal power transfer

August 5, 2020 by d20domme

I took his power and now I was the one complaining. I’ll admit when Puppy and I first met, we both entered into a respective BDSM frenzy; his submissive, mine dominant. We were communicating with each other nearly 24/7, save for some sleeping hours we wedged in between. We moved very fast by all standards … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, FemDom, intentions, leadership, love, power exchange, relationships, submission

Are you suffering from pandem-dick?

July 5, 2020 by d20domme

As anyone knows, this current pandemic has combined some of the worst elements of humanity for us. We have fears about an invisible, hard to detect contagion on top of forced social and physical isolation by our governments. Even on the surface it’s easy to see why this is a stressful time for even the … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Relationships Tagged: love, masturbation, pandemic, relationships, self awareness, self-care, sex, thoughts

The great D/s parent trap

February 5, 2020 by d20domme

As long as I’ve been on my kink journey, I have remained steadfast in one notion: I want to be catered to. I want to be put first and my happiness right next to it. I often dreamed of having an equally OCD submissive who could clean my home from top to bottom, maid’s uniform, … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Relationships Tagged: dominance, dynamic, family, history, love, mental health, patterns, relationships, role play, roles, submission

Happy Polydays!

December 13, 2019 by d20domme

Tis the season…For disaster? For long distance trips? Putting up with family members you only see once a year? No, not those things (though they certainly don’t help), I mean the very hectic and stressful Polyday Season™. The time of the year where I consider just signing out of Google Calendar and letting it all … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Personal Journal Tagged: advice, family, friends, holiday, love, poly, polyamory, relationships, thinking, thoughts, tips

A sadist & a sensualist walk into a bar…

February 2, 2019 by d20domme

I don’t like jokes like this but I do love to laugh. Despite my best efforts, I am a giggler. It doesn’t matter how intense a scene or my hands-on play gets, I can cackle at whatever reaction I am getting from my partner if it delights me. The louder, more vocal and expressive they … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: communication, conscious, cross dress, happiness, love, play, polyamory, self awareness, self-reflection, sensualism, sensualist, sexual touch, tantra, The Gardner

Counting the days

April 5, 2018 by d20domme

In the next week or so I will be returning home and I will be reunited with my fiance and my Mistress. I spent all of last year living with her, thousands of miles from home, being trained and moulded to be the best submissive I could be. The list of training topics we covered … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: 24/7, female led relationship, ldr, long distance, love, puppy, relationship, thinking

Love yourself: Full frontal Mistress

February 16, 2017 by d20domme

There’s no one I love more than myself.  I don’t say that to come across as an asshole, I say that because it’s the person I spend the most time with. The one whose mind I get to run rampant through and who I lie awake with each night. Just having passed that day that … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community Tagged: acceptance, bdsm, challenges, female domination, FemDom, friends, love, thinking, valentine's day
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