A Contribution Writing for Kink Weekly You may have heard the phrase “Toxic masculinity” a lot recently and rightfully so. It’s a reference to culturally-constructed ideals that highlight the violent, emotionally and sexually aggressive behavior perpetrated by male identified people. In my opinion this is a gendered behavior encompassing masculinity on a whole. It’s a … [Read more…]
There’s no one I love more than myself. I don’t say that to come across as an asshole, I say that because it’s the person I spend the most time with. The one whose mind I get to run rampant through and who I lie awake with each night. Just having passed that day that … [Read more…]
A few weekends ago I had the pleasure of attending my first crossing dressing party. I’ve been to cross dressing events or shows in the past, but this was the first event where I was invited to participate. A week prior to the event I tried desperately to find a way to strap down my … [Read more…]
With a little under two weeks left for my sub-hunt things have started to pick up a bit for me. I am definitely interacting with more submissives on and offline than ever before. Is it wrong to feel fucking womanly knowing I am chatting with at least seven twelve fourteen different potentials? Though all this … [Read more…]
I’ve had an interesting past couple of weeks. I’ve been really trying to get out and meet some new people, subs, switches, CDs, even some Doms. I decided to send a cutesy CD I’ve admired online a message, just asking if she’d like to have drinks sometime. To my surprise she agreed to almost immediately. … [Read more…]
Mistress L gives me the look that says, “Sit down and shut up.” I’m already doing that but I still feel scolded when she sashays by in nothing but a pair of lacy black panties and a matching bra, holding a phone to her ear. Although her round hips and short legs look stunning as … [Read more…]
I haven’t thought about BDSM really in a couple weeks. I have been successfully distracting myself with the likes of mini-road trips, impromptu parties and dance clubs, and my new favorite addiction…Fratpad. For those of you who don’t know what Fratpad is, it’s a lovely site catered towards the gay men (or kinky straight woman) … [Read more…]
This has been bugging me for quite some time: People who think using handcuffs or tying up their bf/gf once automatically means they’re ‘into” BDSM. Get real. I’m sorry, call me a bitch (it wouldn’t be the first or last time) but I’m a bit of an elitist here. I think BDSM goes far beyond … [Read more…]