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Novices need not apply

December 5, 2021 by d20domme

Well, this is my personal decree that I am, as of this year, 100% done playing with newbies in the kink community. I know that sounds harsh and elitist but, that’s my preference now. Blame stupid boys for being stupid. After years and years of painstakingly meeting new submissives, coddling cucks, cultivating what appears to … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Femdom, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, ego, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, male submission, relationships, self awareness, thinking, vanilla

The secret life of a sub

December 2, 2015 by Her puppy

She gives me a stern look while we sit on the couch. I wait for corrective action in the form of a face slap, a forceful pinch, or a swift but deliberate pull of my hair but it doesn’t come. I look around and see my friends are still talking, oblivious to my darkened thoughts. … [Read more…]

Posted in: Contributions Tagged: female domination, male submission, perspective, puppy, relationships, submissive, vanilla, writing

I dare you

December 7, 2011 by d20domme

I knew what he wanted but I wouldn’t give it to him. He carefully placed his hand under my blanket now, rubbing just the underside of my cheeks as I lay face down. I lazily but rhythmically stroked his bare cock with my left hand, making sure to take care when nearing the head—his favorite … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: aggression, bf, female led relationship, love, relationships, sex, submission, vanilla

Getting to know you

October 19, 2010 by d20domme

With a little under two weeks left for my sub-hunt things have started to pick up a bit. I am definitely interacting with more submissives on and offline than ever before. Is it wrong to feel fucking womanly knowing I am chatting with at least seven twelve fourteen different potentials? All this exploration now has … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: affection, boundaries, dating, friends, nurse sub, objectification, play, questions, thinking, vanilla

Rant: You’re just boring me

April 11, 2010 by d20domme

Last week I was speaking with a friend of mine who had a problem with my blog. She told me: “I hate that you say we are mundane. Why do you do that?” The “we” she is referring to are the non BDSM/vanilla folks. The weekend prior to seeing her, I met up with the … [Read more…]

Posted in: Rants, Thoughts Tagged: arguments, bdsm, female led relationship, mental health, rant, thinking, vanilla

Repression = Aggression?

November 9, 2009 by d20domme

It was 5:30 am and I had just had sex with a stranger for the third time in a week. I say “stranger” in the sense that the sex my bf and I now have feels, well…strange. We have only known each other for the past 7 months in a certain capacity and now that … [Read more…]

Posted in: Thoughts Tagged: aggression, anger, arguments, bdsm, bf, bitchy, orgasm, pouty, repression, sex, thinking, vanilla

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