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acceptance

The light side of dark age play

April 19, 2019 by d20domme Leave a Comment

A Contribution Writing for Kink Weekly Did reading that title send a little shiver down your spine? It use to do the same for me too. When I first entered the scene many years ago (but who’s counting!), Age play wasn’t really ‘in’. It wasn’t a kink people were talking about. There were no spaces … [Read more…]

Posted in: Contributions Tagged: acceptance, age play, bdsm, communication, community, dark age play, female led relationship, fetishes, kink weekly, kinks, MD/lb, Mommy, opinion, self awareness, taboo

Me. Me. Me?

August 24, 2018 by d20domme Leave a Comment

Me. The Mistress. The Femdom wife. The girlfriend. The committed nesting partner. Me. You would think with a slew of labels like that it would really be all about me though wouldn’t it? But today as I made the same, short drive I make at least a dozen times a week from my boyfriend’s house … [Read more…]

Posted in: Thoughts Tagged: 24/7, acceptance, bdsm, challenges, decisions, doubts, emotions, mental health, motivation, perspective, self-care, self-reflection, thinking

Love yourself: Full frontal Mistress

February 16, 2017 by d20domme Leave a Comment

There’s no one I love more than myself.  I don’t say that to come across as an asshole, I say that because it’s the person I spend the most time with. The one whose mind I get to run rampant through and who I lie awake with each night. Just having passed that day that … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community Tagged: acceptance, bdsm, challenges, female domination, FemDom, friends, love, thinking, valentine's day

A state of flux

November 17, 2016 by d20domme 3 Comments

These were pictures of someone not even remotely like me. A message indicating that a transaction had taken place. I didn’t want to panic, I just wanted answers. I’ve heard that if you tell a lie once all your truths become questionable. This to me sounds reasonable. When we lie, we are stealing social commodity … [Read more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: 24/7, acceptance, cheating, female led relationship, FemDom, forgiveness, male submission, puppy, relationships, thinking

Guest of KinkyCast: BDSM 101 (Part I)

November 4, 2016 by d20domme Leave a Comment

A while back we were asked to speak on podcast KinkyCast and it was a no brainer that we wanted to be involved. As a guest of Woody’s we discuss: Finding your local scene and community Researching your role in BDSM or kink Vetting others before playing Playing safely with fellow kinksters It’s up live … [Read more…]

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: acceptance, bdsm, female domination, FemDom, kinkycast, male submission, meeting new people, newbie, podcast, vetting

Measuring up for Mistress

November 17, 2015 by d20domme 3 Comments

He can’t satisfy me and that’s okay…well at least not with his cock. It’s been no secret that since I became sexually active in my teens that I always craved bigger and ‘better’ cock. At first it started innocently enough (that’s how I like to remember it anyway) and I just loved big dicks. I … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Femdom Tagged: acceptance, bad jokes, big penis, female domination, FemDom, guidelines, male submission, penis, rant, small penis

A ‘Weekend Reunion’

July 21, 2015 by d20domme 1 Comment

It was a welcome change of pace: My first ever big kink event outside of a dungeon and I was surrounded by a large number of kinksters who I identified with. I’m certainly not one who prefers to be surrounded only by people who share the same skin color as me, but I do find … [Read more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: acceptance, bdsm, dungeon, female domination, FemDom, male submission, photography, PoC, squashing, Weekend Reunion

It ain’t easy being kinky

April 29, 2014 by d20domme Leave a Comment

I’m having a mid-kink identity crisis. I’ve come to notice it’s not as easy as, “I think therefore I am” within the kink community or kinky mindset. Over the years I’ve evolved into my own image of what I want to embody as kink. There are certain activities I won’t engage in and others I … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Thoughts Tagged: acceptance, bdsm, community, female domination, FemDom, ramblings, thinking

Give em’ the finger

June 9, 2012 by d20domme 4 Comments

Some guys like a finger in the ass…some don’t. I’ve learned over the years never and I mean NEVER assume…it makes an ass…well never mind that pun is too easy. But seriously, sometimes girls want to put things (mostly a finger or three) in a guy’s ass. Is it just me or are men generally … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community Tagged: acceptance, anal sex, assplay, bdsm, boundaries, female domination, prejudice, sexuality, tips
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