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acceptance

The light side of dark age play

April 19, 2019 by d20domme

A Contribution Writing for Kink Weekly Did reading that title send a little shiver down your spine? It use to do the same for me too. When I first entered the scene many years ago (but who’s counting!), Age play wasn’t really ‘in’. It wasn’t a kink people were talking about. There were no spaces … [Read more…]

Posted in: Contributions Tagged: acceptance, age play, bdsm, communication, community, dark age play, female led relationship, fetishes, kink weekly, kinks, MD/lb, Mommy, opinion, self awareness, taboo

Me. Me. Me?

August 24, 2018 by d20domme

Me. The Mistress. The Femdom wife. The girlfriend. The committed nesting partner. Me. You would think with a slew of labels like that it would really be all about me though wouldn’t it? But today as I made the same, short drive I make at least a dozen times a week from my boyfriend’s house … [Read more…]

Posted in: Thoughts Tagged: 24/7, acceptance, bdsm, challenges, decisions, doubts, emotions, mental health, motivation, perspective, self-care, self-reflection, thinking

Love yourself: Full frontal Mistress

February 16, 2017 by d20domme

There’s no one I love more than myself.  I don’t say that to come across as an asshole, I say that because it’s the person I spend the most time with. The one whose mind I get to run rampant through and who I lie awake with each night. Just having passed that day that … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community Tagged: acceptance, bdsm, challenges, female domination, FemDom, friends, love, thinking, valentine's day

A state of flux

November 17, 2016 by d20domme

These were pictures of someone not even remotely like me. A message indicating that a transaction had taken place. I didn’t want to panic, I just wanted answers. I’ve heard that if you tell a lie once all your truths become questionable. This to me sounds reasonable. When we lie, we are stealing social commodity … [Read more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: 24/7, acceptance, cheating, female led relationship, FemDom, forgiveness, male submission, puppy, relationships, thinking

Guest of KinkyCast: BDSM 101 (Part I)

November 4, 2016 by d20domme

A while back we were asked to speak on podcast KinkyCast and it was a no brainer that we wanted to be involved. As a guest of Woody’s we discuss: Finding your local scene and community Researching your role in BDSM or kink Vetting others before playing Playing safely with fellow kinksters It’s up live … [Read more…]

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: acceptance, bdsm, female domination, FemDom, kinkycast, male submission, meeting new people, newbie, podcast, vetting

Measuring up for Mistress

November 17, 2015 by d20domme

He can’t satisfy me and that’s okay…well at least not with his cock. It’s been no secret that since I became sexually active in my teens that I always craved bigger and ‘better’ cock. At first it started innocently enough (that’s how I like to remember it anyway) and I just loved big dicks. I … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Femdom Tagged: acceptance, bad jokes, big penis, female domination, FemDom, guidelines, male submission, penis, rant, small penis

A ‘Weekend Reunion’

July 21, 2015 by d20domme

It was a welcome change of pace: My first ever big kink event outside of a dungeon and I was surrounded by a large number of kinksters who I identified with. I’m certainly not one who prefers to be surrounded only by people who share the same skin color as me, but I do find … [Read more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: acceptance, bdsm, dungeon, female domination, FemDom, male submission, photography, PoC, squashing, Weekend Reunion

It ain’t easy being kinky

April 29, 2014 by d20domme

I’m having a mid-kink identity crisis. I’ve come to notice it’s not as easy as, “I think therefore I am” within the kink community or kinky mindset. Over the years I’ve evolved into my own image of what I want to embody as kink. There are certain activities I won’t engage in and others I … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Thoughts Tagged: acceptance, bdsm, community, female domination, FemDom, ramblings, thinking

Give em’ the finger

June 9, 2012 by d20domme

Some guys like a finger in the ass…some don’t. I’ve learned over the years never and I mean NEVER assume…it makes an ass…well never mind that pun is too easy. But seriously, sometimes girls want to put things (mostly a finger or three) in a guy’s ass. Is it just me or are men generally … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community Tagged: acceptance, anal sex, assplay, bdsm, boundaries, female domination, prejudice, sexuality, tips
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