Some guys like a finger in the ass…some don’t.
I’ve learned over the years never and I mean NEVER assume…it makes an ass…well never mind that pun is too easy.
But seriously, sometimes girls want to put things (mostly a finger or three) in a guy’s ass.
Is it just me or are men generally much more uptight (again no pun intended) about putting things in their asses? Currently neither of my beaus are into this, that’s fair, to each their own. However their logic falls short for me. Did I mention they thoroughly enjoy giving me anal and have no problem being on the other end? That seems like a double standard. And beyond any of that…they won’t even TRY it before they decide they don’t like it.
NEWSFLASH: A finger in the ass does not make you gay. Okay guys? Or bi, or any other number of ridiculous ideas you’ve made up in your mind. If someone has told you this or you have gotten this impression from media, then just put it aside. Sexual pleasure is not a plausible marker for determining homosexuality—if so, we’d all be gay!
At worst it makes you experimental. At best it means you know what you like and aren’t afraid to enjoy yourself in the bedroom.
I am a whole-hearted advocate for trying everything at least once, yes even this. The science behind it all makes it too hard to argue against. There are a cluster of nerve endings in your anus that make stimulation to this area feel extremely pleasurable (I know from continued experience). Orgasms can even be heightened with a little back door play if timed right. Best of all there’s no special toys or lube needed. Just a little finger play and you could be “ooh” and “ahh”ing more than you imagined. Just remember to clean your hands before and after for safety and tell your partner to also be as sanitary as possible before play.
Heterosexual assplay should be a fun experience. That’s it really. A finger in the ass shouldn’t be a pain in the ass. Don’t over think it, just enjoy yourself.
And lighten up men, give it a try. Leave your inhibitions at the bedroom door not your back door…your significant other just might thank you.
Hahahaha…
I LIKE this post!!
The first time I can recall someone wanting to do something like this to me.. wasn't during sex. It was afterwards… kind of like 'sound asleep' afterwards.
Through the slumber, I heard this 'bzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz'… and the next thing I know, I have some kind of bottle rocket hilt deep in my butt…
I do think that I set and still hold the Tennessee record for Reclining High Jump.
I don't think my response was so much that I didn't want it, etc etc etc.. I just wasn't expecting it…
;o)
Hell… I'm willing to try anything a couple of times!
~shoes~
My first thought is really, who's in charge here? My boy, who is so sweet, will try anything I ask without disagreement. I try to always be gentle and kind, especially when it's something new, and check with him for pain. We've discussed the differences between pain that involves injury and pain that involves intensity. He knows I don't want to harm him, just enjoy him.
Don't ask, tell. Sweetly, gently, kindly insist that we are doing this, Sweetheart, and if you don't like it, we can discuss it, AFTERWARDS. Then give him a long kiss, a sweet smile, and bend him over.
Just a suggestion. Works for me. 🙂
@Tina: Yes that would generally work if this was with a sub boy but this was about vanilla men in general and my bfs who are also vanilla.
If it was a sub there would be no asking, only telling 😉
I was horrified the first time a domme put a finger in my ass. She had just beaten my ass cheeks savagely..I was in real pain..I was lying face up on a bench, my legs tied overhead, completely restrained and helpless..I felt her hand near my crack, she had some lotion on the hand, she rubbed some on my cheeks, I foolishly thought she was giving my ass some relief from pain, then I felt a finger enter my anus. I begged, I pleaded..but she was going to do as she pleased, she owned me. I was mortified, I felt like a gay man being entered. Eventually she inserted another digit as she shouted triumphantly "two fingers, Mark!". My humiliation was complete. Then a strange thing happened: the anal muscles relaxed and I started to enjoy the feeling..I no longer felt "gay" and enjoyed the fucking of my ass. When she finally stopped, I begged her to put her fingers back in my ass. Anal play has been an enjoyable aspect of any session when I have served a Goddess and I have never felt any less masculine when a dominant goddess has used my ass. I particularly enjoy the sensation when a busty, black domme has raped my ass. It has been too long since a Goddess has used me in this fashion..
Slave Mark
Arlington, Va.