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The Initiation Ritual

May 5, 2025 by d20domme Leave a Comment

I’ve been a spanko since, well, forever! This is one of the few fetishes I enjoy giving and receiving. So it’s no surprise that incorporating impact play as an “initiation ritual” for someone new I play. I consider it is a first step to serivin. Why do I like impact play with new play partners? … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal Tagged: bdsm, D/s, FemDom, newbie, spanking, submission

Remains to be scene

March 14, 2017 by d20domme

If I can’t arrive fashionably late to a kink event, chances are I probably won’t attend. I dress to be seen. That takes time. There’s always the ritual of choosing the right outfit (and trying each on), if I’m going with Femdom lite or Femdom dark make-up, tights, fishnets, or bare legs, of course shoes … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal Tagged: bdsm, female domination, FemDom, male submission, meeting new people, pegging, punishment, puppy, queening, spanking

White lies lead to red asses – Part II

January 30, 2013 by d20domme

I said the words more sternly than I had intended but I still enjoyed the effect of his wide eyes and immediate obedience. He stripped down to his undies and stood before me hands neatly behind his back. I looked down at the underwear disapprovingly over the rim of my glasses. “You won’t be needing … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: apologies, bdsm, bf, Bianca, clubs, female led relationship, FemDom, lies, male submission, play parties, punishment, relationships, scene, spanking

White lies lead to red asses – Part I

January 8, 2013 by d20domme

It started without thought and intensified very quickly. Within moments I was beating him bare-handed over and over, not fully in control of myself, until his ass reddened commanding him to apologize. I imagine finding out that he had lied to me indiscriminately didn’t help but add fuel to the fire but if the house … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, female led relationship, FemDom, lies, male submission, punishment, relationships, spanking

Birthday wishes (Part II)

November 1, 2011 by d20domme

I had invited quiet sub, I knew he was coming…I just wasn’t prepared for it. We had some good sessions but then things just sort of dissolved with our work schedules and my lack of initiative and the times we had seen each other since then had been in vanilla settings. So, while prepping drinks … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal Tagged: birthday, domination, female domination, FemDom, happiness, kissing, male submission, spanking, submissives

Birthday wishes (Part I)

October 19, 2011 by d20domme

Did I tell you the one about my birthday….? Birthdays and spankings go together like lace and leather, so it should be no surprise that it was the main focus of my birthday wishes this year. In true Mistress fashion, I threw a birthday party with lots of friends and even more alcohol! But the … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal Tagged: birthday, female domination, FemDom, panties, promises, quiet sub, role reversal, spanking, submit

Shake your money maker

May 23, 2011 by d20domme

The thumpa-thumpa that is synonymous with clubs rallied around me, piercing my veins. I love that feeling. The feeling that the club is sustaining you. Despite the drunken mishaps of a bachelorette sitting next to me I was having a good time. It was shaping up to be a good 21st birthday outing for my … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal Tagged: birthday, clubs, life, party, spanking, strippers

Rules are meant to be broken…and so is your ass

April 21, 2011 by d20domme

I want to see you. The five words stared up at me from my phone, silently beckoning me to me respond. But I ignored it for two days. Please see me. This text 48 hours later seemed more honest. He was begging and I liked that as I was deciding whether or not to ignore … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal Tagged: Congressman, decisions, female domination, FemDom, forgiveness, male submission, panties, play, punishment, spanking, submission

A little manners go a long way

April 15, 2011 by d20domme

This was his second week of testing. Writer sub had impressed me the previous week with his perfect score but somehow I knew this week, taking a test based solely on facts about me he might not do perfectly. But I’m a complicated woman and I knew watching him take the test over his shoulder would … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal Tagged: aggression, anal play, Bianca, bondage, FemDom, male submission, spanking, spitting, toys, writer sub
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