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Marvelous multiples

May 21, 2012 by d20domme

I always seem to find the perfect guy…when I’m already in a relationship. Being the good person that I am I don’t cheat. No. I’ve never cheated. I’ve been cheated on but have never cheated. Instead I resort to the agonizing internal self-infliction—the “What if” game. What if I were single?What if I got drunk … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, decisions, emotions, FemDom, poly, polyamory, polyandry, relationships, thinking

I dare you

December 7, 2011 by d20domme

I knew what he wanted but I wouldn’t give it to him. He carefully placed his hand under my blanket now, rubbing just the underside of my cheeks as I lay face down. I lazily but rhythmically stroked his bare cock with my left hand, making sure to take care when nearing the head—his favorite … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: aggression, bf, female led relationship, love, relationships, sex, submission, vanilla

Rant: Polyamory is not a bad word

August 29, 2011 by d20domme

Listen up men of the interwebs…swingers ≠ polyamorous  I have a few profiles floating around online and all of them mention my being in an open relationship. Despite my stating its variance to swinging the young (and sometimes much too old), dense men writing me don’t seem to understand the distinct differences. So it is … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Rants, Thoughts Tagged: dating, poly, polyamory, rant, relationships, swinging

Just say when

April 27, 2011 by d20domme

Some friends of mine had a heated debate regarding safewords. Some people hate safewords, feeling that they restrict the natural flow of the relationship and their play time. Others don’t understand their proper place and find them amusing. While the majority of people use safewords to well…feel safe. Safewords are pre-determined word(s) or a phrase … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, community, guidelines, relationships, requirements, safety, safeword, thinking

My teacher’s pet

April 1, 2011 by d20domme

I’m doing this for him. I’ve been growing my nails out for him. It’s nice to do things for someone again…someone who will appreciate it. Painting and picture taking are always easier with short nails but scratching a succulent sub’s body is more fun, so I grow them for him. He doesn’t know it and … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: Bianca, doubts, female domination, male submission, relationships, requirements, spanking, training, writer sub

Hardwired for hardware

March 2, 2011 by d20domme

Years ago I had a very unique and private photography job. I trekked into Washington, DC to an old row house just on the outskirts of the city. A significantly older woman than I was expecting answered. When she saw me she greeted me in but also expressed that I was much younger than she … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: affection, bdsm, D/s, dating, fantasy, relationships, submission, thinking, web cam

What women want

September 16, 2010 by d20domme

…I actually don’t know what all women want, I only know what this woman wants. I have finally come to terms with what exactly I really want. Many of the things in my life have fallen into place except men. With me, men and relationships have always been an exhilarating roller coaster. I’ve been through … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, D/s, dating, decisions, FemDom, fetishes, ideas, relationships

MonoPoly: Passing Go or Straight To Jail?

May 11, 2010 by d20domme

A lot of people are curious about my relationship status and how I maintain in general the relationships I am involved in. I’ve found that “MonoPoly” is a new buzz word that’s been making its way around the scene. After learning a bit more about it I suppose my lifestyle would fit into its category. … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: acceptance, bf, decisions, MonoPoly, poly, polyamory, relationships, self-reflection, thinking

*Snap*

January 19, 2010 by d20domme

Well it definitely broke…my past relationship with my last slave turned bf. We spoke briefly on New Year’s Eve but really it was more empty words without actions. Thus, I’ve decided to start the new year off proper. A lot of amazing changes are taking place (or about to) take place in my world and … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: acceptance, bdsm, life, love, new slave, relationships, submission
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