If I can’t arrive fashionably late to a kink event, chances are I probably won’t attend. I dress to be seen. That takes time. There’s always the ritual of choosing the right outfit (and trying each on), if I’m going with Femdom lite or Femdom dark make-up, tights, fishnets, or bare legs, of course shoes … [Read more…]
There’s no one I love more than myself. I don’t say that to come across as an asshole, I say that because it’s the person I spend the most time with. The one whose mind I get to run rampant through and who I lie awake with each night. Just having passed that day that … [Read more…]
We’re back with Woody (and the Beast!) of KinkyCast as delve further into what to do as you’re finding your way in a new community. Such as: Finding a mentor to show you around the kink community Being safe and setting limits for yourself and others Managing expectations Educating yourself on BDSM and kink to be … [Read more…]
Earlier in the evening Mistress informed me that we would be having a play-date with another sissy. I was initially surprised and a little nervous but as it got closer to leaving to go to the dungeon, I got more and more excited. I was so excited that I actually got dressed in my full … [Read more…]
These were pictures of someone not even remotely like me. A message indicating that a transaction had taken place. I didn’t want to panic, I just wanted answers. I’ve heard that if you tell a lie once all your truths become questionable. This to me sounds reasonable. When we lie, we are stealing social commodity … [Read more…]
A while back we were asked to speak on podcast KinkyCast and it was a no brainer that we wanted to be involved. As a guest of Woody’s we discuss: Finding your local scene and community Researching your role in BDSM or kink Vetting others before playing Playing safely with fellow kinksters It’s up live … [Read more…]
Sharing is caring. But what if you care too much to share? You would think as a practicer of polyamory I’d fully understand and be able to execute the act if sharing my partners but it doesn’t always end up that way. This isn’t a post about poly life. This is a post about the … [Read more…]
It’s been exactly 110 days since my puppy and I arrived back from overseas and I can’t believe time has passed so quickly. He started his second segment of training a few weeks after arriving and while we started out like a freight train, we’re having a little trouble getting over the bumps we’ve reached. … [Read more…]
Seriously. I’m not trying to be hateful, just honest. I’ve had the pleasure (mostly) of being able to be a part of local BDSM communities around the world. Some have run like well oiled machines, friendly faces and helping hands all around. Others have been run like the classroom of a preschool teacher’s worst nightmare. … [Read more…]
