People often ask me as a Mistress, what puts me in the mood and what my personal style for playing/doing a scene is? As for what gets me in the mood…that’s easy, a very submissive male. A good sub who says all the right things can have me thinking of him for days. Just hearing … [Tell me more…]
As I logged into my Fetlife account today I saw that I had several messages waiting to be read. Sometimes I dread the messages on that site, sometimes I look forward to them. After skimming through I realized I had several “Oh-pick-me-please-Mistress-I’ll-be-the-best-sub messages“. These usually amuse me for several reasons. You’re in luck however as … [Tell me more…]
A lot of people are curious about my relationship status and how I maintain in general the relationships I am involved in. I’ve found that “MonoPoly” is a new buzz word that’s been making its way around the scene. After learning a bit more about it I suppose my lifestyle would fit into its category. … [Tell me more…]
Earlier this week I attended a local BDSM munch with the sweet sub. Last minute plans entailed my inviting a close friend of mine as well and we were off. Upon arriving, the sweet sub was as handsome as usual and dressed as a mild mannered frat boy (how can someone look so innocent but … [Tell me more…]
Last week I was speaking with a friend of mine who had a problem with my blog. She told me: “I hate that you say we are mundane. Why do you do that?” The “we” she is referring to are the non BDSM/vanilla folks. The weekend prior to seeing her, I met up with the … [Tell me more…]
More and more I’ve been thinking about the various men I have met and been with throughout my life. Sometimes I find myself wishing I could take a small souvenir of them to build what I’ve dreamed in my mind as: Franken-Toy. Franken-Toy would be my personal fuck toy. He would look, think, act, and … [Tell me more…]
A few nights ago I went out to have drinks with someone I’ve been exclusively talking to online for about a year. I knew that if we didn’t meet in the next couple of weeks we probably never would. So, we decided kinda spur of the moment to meet up at a bar. I was … [Tell me more…]
“Would you be into doing a short adult movie?“ That was the first text I woke up to a couple days ago. Here I was thinking that I was losing my edge, sexiness, and overall wild womanly ways; thinking I was being left out of all the fun. But, it seems I stand corrected. It’s … [Tell me more…]
If you’re a submissive male and you’ve signed yourself up for BDSM, you might as well signed in blood. You beg, plead, throw grown men tantrums, and all but cry to get the things you “want”. But honestly it’s never about what you want. Part of your submissive appeal is that you are just that…submissive. … [Tell me more…]