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No, I won’t break you

March 5, 2020 by d20domme

“Mistress, please just break me down.”“I’ll be anything you want.”“Remind me that I am nothing.” These are all “sexy phrases” I’m assuming submissives have heard or seen in porn or worse? I say assume because for me, phrases like these immediately take me out of my dominant headspace and replaces it with a big “huh?!”. … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Contributions, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, domination, empowerment, power exchange, self awareness, self love, self-care, submission

The great D/s parent trap

February 5, 2020 by d20domme

As long as I’ve been on my kink journey, I have remained steadfast in one notion: I want to be catered to. I want to be put first and my happiness right next to it. I often dreamed of having an equally OCD submissive who could clean my home from top to bottom, maid’s uniform, … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Relationships Tagged: dominance, dynamic, family, history, love, mental health, patterns, relationships, role play, roles, submission

Protect your energy

January 1, 2020 by d20domme

We all want the adventure, excitement, and fun that accompanies the best relationships. How do you do that if your romance is draining you instead of filling you up energetically? Have you felt overwhelmed, exhausted, and negatively impacted by thoughts of someone, in this case a partner, for most of the day? It could be possible … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Relationships Tagged: energy drain, energy vampire, relationships, self awareness

Happy Polydays!

December 13, 2019 by d20domme

Tis the season…For disaster? For long distance trips? Putting up with family members you only see once a year? No, not those things (though they certainly don’t help), I mean the very hectic and stressful Polyday Season™. The time of the year where I consider just signing out of Google Calendar and letting it all … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Personal Journal Tagged: advice, family, friends, holiday, love, poly, polyamory, relationships, thinking, thoughts, tips

It’s a break, not broken

November 22, 2019 by d20domme

I look around the room and wonder… Does anyone in here know what a true break from this all means? It’s an ironic observation as I, myself, stand up on a stage in front of nearly 100 fellow kinksters, ready to speak on a kinky topic. I feel like a fraud whenever this happens (as … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Femdom, Personal Journal Tagged: breaktime, FemDom, FMTM, journal, keep calm, personal, self-care, self-reflection, top drop

The caliber of a Fem(dom)

October 27, 2019 by d20domme

I won’t bore you with the usual caution to not trust just anyone, no matter the size of their toybag. I will, however, share with you some things I’ve cultivated and strived for over the years to become what I consider, a Femdom of respectable caliber. It varies greatly when we get to the specific … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Femdom Tagged: bdsm, consent, domination, FemDom, newbie, submission, thoughts

Locktober: A treat for all

September 23, 2019 by d20domme

It’s the month often associated with pumpkins, the changing of the leaves, and oh yes, and trick or treat. The month is truly a treat for those adults who decide to partake in the tradition less often talked about: Loctober. Yes, a whole, glorious 31, non-stop, no-being-poked-in-the-back-in-the-middle-of-the-night, no boner, chastity play month. This custom, which … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community Tagged: challenges, chastity, female domination, FemDom, how to, Locktober, male submission, play, submission

Less labels more talking

August 26, 2019 by d20domme

As humans we have an innate obsession with placing labels on everything, including ourselves. Labels help give people a false sense of order and a way to separate things. However, we aren’t things; we’re people first and heavily using labels to categorize people isn’t fair. It takes away the depth and complexity each of us … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, boundaries, communication, community, interpersonal, labels, nlp, opinion, respect, self awareness, social, thoughts, words

Mommy’s good boy

July 22, 2019 by d20domme

When I entered the room, it was just as I had requested: panties and stockings laid out on the bed. I turned to look at him standing in the doorway, still dressed from the day. He was trying not to blush, his deep brown eyes pleading in my direction. I curled my finger up and … [Read more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: age play, bdsm, dark age play, female domination, feminization, forced orgasm, kink weekly, little play, MDlb, Mommy, play, role play
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