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Less labels more talking

August 26, 2019 by d20domme Leave a Comment

As humans we have an innate obsession with placing labels on everything, including ourselves. Labels help give people a false sense of order and a way to separate things. However, we aren’t things; we’re people first and heavily using labels to categorize people isn’t fair. It takes away the depth and complexity each of us … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, boundaries, communication, community, interpersonal, labels, nlp, opinion, respect, self awareness, social, thoughts, words

Mommy’s good boy

July 22, 2019 by d20domme Leave a Comment

When I entered the room, it was just as I had requested: panties and stockings laid out on the bed. I turned to look at him standing in the doorway, still dressed from the day. He was trying not to blush, his deep brown eyes pleading in my direction. I curled my finger up and … [Read more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: age play, bdsm, dark age play, female domination, feminization, forced orgasm, kink weekly, little play, MDlb, Mommy, play, role play

It’s my privacy and I want it now!

June 15, 2019 by d20domme Leave a Comment

A Contribution Writing For Kink Weekly I grab him by his short locks one handful at a time chiding him as I grind up against him. It’s just me, him, and a hard wooden, freshly polished St. Andrew’s cross. I know there’s a mixture of pleasure and pain as I force him against the rigid … [Read more…]

Posted in: Community, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, communication, female domination, FemDom, kink weekly, kinkster, mentor, presenter, privacy, public speaking, respect, safety

Guest of Talkin’ Taboo: Truths of A Femdom

June 15, 2019 by d20domme Leave a Comment

A while ago, I was a guest of Sadie’s on her podcast Talkin’ Taboo. We had a lovely chat (as well as a her bio-pup sneaking in!) about a lot of the truths I live with as the type of Femdom I am. We chatted about… My local kink community Viewpoints as a POC and … [Read more…]

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: community, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, fetishes, opinion, plus size, PoC, podcast, polyamory, polyandry, Sadie, self awareness, talkin taboo, thoughts

The light side of dark age play

April 19, 2019 by d20domme Leave a Comment

A Contribution Writing for Kink Weekly Did reading that title send a little shiver down your spine? It use to do the same for me too. When I first entered the scene many years ago (but who’s counting!), Age play wasn’t really ‘in’. It wasn’t a kink people were talking about. There were no spaces … [Read more…]

Posted in: Contributions Tagged: acceptance, age play, bdsm, communication, community, dark age play, female led relationship, fetishes, kink weekly, kinks, MD/lb, Mommy, opinion, self awareness, taboo

Guest of Erotic Awakening: Polyandry 101

March 21, 2019 by d20domme Leave a Comment

Last month I took a few minutes to speak with Dan an Dawn of Erotic Awakening and Beyond The Love. They’re the original big thinkers behind the annual 3-day polyamory convention in Columbus, Ohio. Check it out if you are curious or identify as polyamorous for “Education, workshops, social activities, meeting other polyamory people and more”. In 2017 … [Read more…]

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: beyond the love, communication, dan, dawn, discussion, erotic awakening, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, MonoPoly, podcast, poly, polyamory, polyandry, relationships, self awareness, thoughts

Undermining Others: The Truth About Benevolent Sexism

February 25, 2019 by d20domme Leave a Comment
Image courtesy of https://feminem.org/

A Contribution Writing for Kink Weekly You may have heard the phrase “Toxic masculinity” a lot recently and rightfully so. It’s  a reference to culturally-constructed ideals that highlight the violent, emotionally and sexually aggressive behavior perpetrated by male identified people. In my opinion this is a gendered behavior encompassing masculinity on a whole. It’s a … [Read more…]

Posted in: Contributions Tagged: bdsm, community, contribution, equality, fairness, female opinion, feminism, friends, hostility, kink weekly, self awareness, teamwork, toxic

A sadist & a sensualist walk into a bar…

February 2, 2019 by d20domme Leave a Comment

I don’t like jokes like this but I do love to laugh. Despite my best efforts, I am a giggler. It doesn’t matter how intense a scene or my hands-on play gets, I can cackle at whatever reaction I am getting from my partner if it delights me. The louder, more vocal and expressive they … [Read more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: communication, conscious, cross dress, happiness, love, play, polyamory, self awareness, self-reflection, sensualism, sensualist, sexual touch, tantra, The Gardner

FMTM – ASMR: It’s all in your head (Sadistic Spa)

November 10, 2018 by d20domme Leave a Comment

Over the years there have been kinks that I wholeheartedly threw myself into and absolutely hated (bootblacking). There’s ones I was sure I would loathe but ended up loving (spitting) and there are some that just wormed their way through my kinky cracks, like ASMR that I haven’t been able to stop being fascinated with. … [Read more…]

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: ASMR, audio, bdsm, erotic hypnosis, female domination, FemDom, FMTM, mind play, podcast, relaxation
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