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Why association isn’t an endorsement

November 5, 2024 by d20domme

Navigating BDSM social and, in my case, a professional space often requires interaction with a wide range of people, groups, and organizations. From event hosts, to start-up kinky ventures and community acquaintances to people you may not particularly like, the world is full of diverse personalities. However, the notion that being polite and maintaining a … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community Tagged: bdsm, community, D/s, etiquette, FemDom, social, social networking, thinking

Lock & Learn: Essential Safety Tips for Chastity

September 30, 2024 by d20domme

It’s that time of year again… It’s LOCK-FRIGGIN-TOBER!! *clears throat* Apologies. As you all may know, I am obsessed with a chastity play. I am a bit fanatical with chastity play. 95% of the partners I’ve played with and had serve Me over the years, were required to enforced chastity in some way or another. … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Relationships Tagged: chastity, chastity play, cuckolding, female led relationship, FemDom, feminization, key holding, Locktober, male chastity, Patreon, safety, sissies, sissification, submission

Fade into the background

September 5, 2024 by d20domme

i had just finished getting ready for bed when Mistress came into the room and asked me if i had enough energy to have some fun.  Even if i was much more tired than i was, the answer would have still been an automatic and enthusiastic “Yes!” “Good” Mistress said “A deal has been struck … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal Tagged: bdsm, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, male submission, pet, polyandry, puppy, queening, slave, threesome

Kink 101: Consent & privacy

August 5, 2024 by d20domme Leave a Comment

The kink and BDSM community is an effervescent, diverse space where individuals explore their fantasies, desires, and boundaries. I’ve learned after two decades within the community what’s really important. At the heart of this exploration are two fundamental principles: consent and privacy. These principles not only ensure the safety and well-being of participants but also foster … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community Tagged: BDSM Basics, BDSM community, community, consent, D/s, FemDom, kink, privacy

Rant: Naming Power

July 5, 2024 by d20domme

I am be ranting but follow me… Ever since I was a kid, I hated my name. Genuinely distasted being called it. My parents thought it would a great idea to combine their two names (I see you other Black families!). In theory this can work, in practice it usually ends up feeling forced. I … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Rants Tagged: BDSM community, community, d20domme, FemDom, Names, newbie, relationships, thinking

One long Queer journey

June 5, 2024 by d20domme

Over the years I’ve pondered some important questions… But my latest one has not stopped niggling in the back of my mind… Am I Queer? But what is ‘Queer’ anyway I’ve thought often. Is it a sexual orientation? A gender identity or expression? A community and culture flair? After years of reading, examining, and listening … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal Tagged: community, D/s, female domination, FemDaddy, FemDom, LGBTQIA+, Pride, Pride Month, Queer, relationships, self awareness, self love, thinking

D/s service building from within

May 5, 2024 by d20domme

If you don’t know already… I. Love. Service. Submission. When I first stepped into the world of kink, the biggest draw for me aside from sexual growth was the desire to be catered to. The classical imagery of Femdoms with their feet up, a constantly topped up glass in their hand, massages on demand, attentiveness … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom Tagged: D/s, domestic servitude, female domination, FemDom, male submission, service submission, skills, thinking

I am my own Primary

April 5, 2024 by d20domme

Hierarchy. Reading the simple noun alone might elicit a physical and automatic reaction. Did it for you? For some people, the hatred for hierarchy runs deep. Despite that, we see hierarchies play out every day in our vanilla lives. Hierarchies often play a part to determine an individual’s or group’s status, privilege, and access to … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Relationships Tagged: bdsm, D/s, ENM, female domination, FemDom, hierarchy, polyamory, polyandry, relationships

Guest of The Partition #2: Age & Pet Play

March 5, 2024 by d20domme

I was delighted to be welcomed back to chat in depth with someone who understands kinky and BDSM as a means of personal growth. I joined Kinky Wellness coach, Dana Shergill of The Partition: Home of Kinky Wellness again for another chat! You might remember that she is a big advocate for integrating kink into … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: D/s, FemDom, fetishes, lifestyle, opinion, Podcasts, sex coach, sexual wellness, the partition, thoughts, wellness
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