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The caliber of a Fem(dom)

October 27, 2019 by d20domme

I won’t bore you with the usual caution to not trust just anyone, no matter the size of their toybag. I will, however, share with you some things I’ve cultivated and strived for over the years to become what I consider, a Femdom of respectable caliber. It varies greatly when we get to the specific … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Femdom Tagged: bdsm, consent, domination, FemDom, newbie, submission, thoughts

Locktober: A treat for all

September 23, 2019 by d20domme

It’s the month often associated with pumpkins, the changing of the leaves, and oh yes, and trick or treat. The month is truly a treat for those adults who decide to partake in the tradition less often talked about: Loctober. Yes, a whole, glorious 31, non-stop, no-being-poked-in-the-back-in-the-middle-of-the-night, no boner, chastity play month. This custom, which … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community Tagged: challenges, chastity, female domination, FemDom, how to, Locktober, male submission, play, submission

Less labels more talking

August 26, 2019 by d20domme

As humans we have an innate obsession with placing labels on everything, including ourselves. Labels help give people a false sense of order and a way to separate things. However, we aren’t things; we’re people first and heavily using labels to categorize people isn’t fair. It takes away the depth and complexity each of us … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, boundaries, communication, community, interpersonal, labels, nlp, opinion, respect, self awareness, social, thoughts, words

Mommy’s good boy

July 22, 2019 by d20domme

When I entered the room, it was just as I had requested: panties and stockings laid out on the bed. I turned to look at him standing in the doorway, still dressed from the day. He was trying not to blush, his deep brown eyes pleading in my direction. I curled my finger up and … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: age play, bdsm, dark age play, female domination, feminization, forced orgasm, kink weekly, little play, MDlb, Mommy, play, role play

It’s my privacy and I want it now!

June 15, 2019 by d20domme

A Contribution Writing For Kink Weekly I grab him by his short locks one handful at a time chiding him as I grind up against him. It’s just me, him, and a hard wooden, freshly polished St. Andrew’s cross. I know there’s a mixture of pleasure and pain as I force him against the rigid … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, communication, female domination, FemDom, kink weekly, kinkster, mentor, presenter, privacy, public speaking, respect, safety

Guest of Talkin’ Taboo: Truths of A Femdom

June 15, 2019 by d20domme

A while ago, I was a guest of Sadie’s on her podcast Talkin’ Taboo. We had a lovely chat (as well as a her bio-pup sneaking in!) about a lot of the truths I live with as the type of Femdom I am. We chatted about… Listen to our convo here and give it a listen!

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: community, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, fetishes, opinion, plus size, PoC, Podcasts, polyamory, polyandry, Sadie, self awareness, talkin taboo, thoughts

The light side of dark age play

April 19, 2019 by d20domme

A Contribution Writing for Kink Weekly Did reading that title send a little shiver down your spine? It use to do the same for me too. When I first entered the scene many years ago (but who’s counting!), Age play wasn’t really ‘in’. It wasn’t a kink people were talking about. There were no spaces … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Contributions Tagged: acceptance, age play, bdsm, communication, community, dark age play, female led relationship, fetishes, kink weekly, kinks, MD/lb, Mommy, opinion, self awareness, taboo

Guest of Erotic Awakening: Polyandry 101

March 21, 2019 by d20domme

Last month I took a few minutes to speak with Dan an Dawn of Erotic Awakening and Beyond The Love. They’re the original big thinkers behind the annual 3-day polyamory convention in Columbus, Ohio. Check it out if you are curious or identify as polyamorous for “Education, workshops, social activities, meeting other polyamory people and more”. In 2017 … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: beyond the love, communication, dan, dawn, discussion, erotic awakening, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, MonoPoly, Podcasts, poly, polyamory, polyandry, relationships, self awareness, thoughts

Undermining Others: The Truth About Benevolent Sexism

February 25, 2019 by d20domme
Image courtesy of https://feminem.org/

A Contribution Writing for Kink Weekly You may have heard the phrase “Toxic masculinity” a lot recently and rightfully so. It’s  a reference to culturally-constructed ideals that highlight the violent, emotionally and sexually aggressive behavior perpetrated by male identified people. In my opinion this is a gendered behavior encompassing masculinity on a whole. It’s a … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Contributions Tagged: bdsm, community, contribution, equality, fairness, female opinion, feminism, friends, hostility, kink weekly, self awareness, teamwork, toxic
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