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Guest of Erotic Awakening: Polyandry 101

March 21, 2019 by d20domme

Last month I took a few minutes to speak with Dan an Dawn of Erotic Awakening and Beyond The Love. They’re the original big thinkers behind the annual 3-day polyamory convention in Columbus, Ohio. Check it out if you are curious or identify as polyamorous for “Education, workshops, social activities, meeting other polyamory people and more”. In 2017 … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: beyond the love, communication, dan, dawn, discussion, erotic awakening, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, MonoPoly, Podcasts, poly, polyamory, polyandry, relationships, self awareness, thoughts

A state of flux

November 17, 2016 by d20domme

These were pictures of someone not even remotely like me. A message indicating that a transaction had taken place. I didn’t want to panic, I just wanted answers. I’ve heard that if you tell a lie once all your truths become questionable. This to me sounds reasonable. When we lie, we are stealing social commodity … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: 24/7, acceptance, cheating, female led relationship, FemDom, forgiveness, male submission, puppy, relationships, thinking

Mine, yours, not ours

August 10, 2016 by d20domme

Sharing is caring. But what if you care too much to share? You would think as a practicer of polyamory I’d fully understand and be able to execute the act if sharing my partners but it doesn’t always end up that way. This isn’t a post about poly life. This is a post about the … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: dominance, female domination, female opinion, FemDom, flirting, hard limits, love, male submission, relationships

It’s all in the wrist

February 22, 2016 by d20domme

As I type this I can hear his pathetic whimpers from inside the closet. “Mistresssss…..Miss…” he trails off breathlessly. I hate and love his whining in this moment. I refuse to answer. Especially after I’ve specifically told him today not to call me ‘Mistress’ that I wasn’t in fact his ‘Mistress’. “All of this is … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal Tagged: female domination, FemDom, humiliation, male submission, puppy, relationships, torture, training

The polycule breakdown

December 18, 2015 by d20domme

As many of my readers know I am involved in a polyamorous relationship. There’s me in the eye of the storm, my vanilla boyfriend, Locs, my bf turned kinky play partner, and now the newest addition of my beautiful puppy. It’s a lot to handle at times…sometimes too much to handle. When puppy came to … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: break-up, communication, female domination, FemDom, MonoPoly, poly, relationships

The secret life of a sub

December 2, 2015 by Her puppy

She gives me a stern look while we sit on the couch. I wait for corrective action in the form of a face slap, a forceful pinch, or a swift but deliberate pull of my hair but it doesn’t come. I look around and see my friends are still talking, oblivious to my darkened thoughts. … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Contributions Tagged: female domination, male submission, perspective, puppy, relationships, submissive, vanilla, writing

I make the rules

June 18, 2015 by d20domme

After my last entry I took some time with the boy to talk about where we were going and where we had been with our kinky interactions for the past couple of years. I expected a certain level of protocol and discipline that I knew he wasn’t delivering and wasn’t entirely sure he was capable … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal Tagged: bdsm, female led relationship, flr, male submission, power exchange, relationships, self-reflection, submission, wlr

Aftercare: Not just an afterthought

January 15, 2015 by d20domme

I don’t usually make any big mistakes as a dominant, that’s not to say I still don’t have  areas to improve in, I just mean I’m usually on top (no pun intended) of things I do. A couple of weeks ago the boy, who in this new year shall be referred to as Locs, attended a … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Relationships Tagged: Aftercare, bdsm, bondage, protocol, questions, relationships, rope, shibari

White lies lead to red asses – Part II

January 30, 2013 by d20domme

I said the words more sternly than I had intended but I still enjoyed the effect of his wide eyes and immediate obedience. He stripped down to his undies and stood before me hands neatly behind his back. I looked down at the underwear disapprovingly over the rim of my glasses. “You won’t be needing … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: apologies, bdsm, bf, Bianca, clubs, female led relationship, FemDom, lies, male submission, play parties, punishment, relationships, scene, spanking
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