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Down the primrose path…

August 5, 2023 by d20domme

Mommies don’t cry.Mommies don’t cry.Mommies don’t… I couldn’t even finish my own self soothing mantra as I held back tears. I glanced at myself in the visor mirror between watching the busy highway. ‘I’m going to lose my Mommy‘ I kept hearing his voice say on repeat in my head. I knew I would have … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal Tagged: break-up, choosing, communication, dating, decisions, emotions, heartbroken, life, love, MDlb, MonoPoly, poly, polyamory, polyandry, relationship, self-reflection, The Gardner

Keep your standards too high

March 5, 2022 by d20domme

Keep your standards too high I’ve been told on more than one occasion… ‘Wow you have really high standards.’ or ‘Maybe your standards are too high.’ The thing is, I don’t believe in having “too high standards”. I believe in unrealistic standards – they can be high, low, or just shit. Over the years in … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: D/s, dating, FemDom, love, relationships, self awareness, self love, submission, thinking

Beat around the bush

July 18, 2017 by d20domme

I met a gardener and he’s the first person I’ve found who can cure my black thumb. The Gardener came into my life last year by way of a crossdresser’s munch. Puppy and I attended and weren’t expecting much. But, I did talk with The Gardener most of the evening. He invited the two of … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: cross dress, dating, female led relationship, meeting new people, MonoPoly, poly, polyandry, The Gardner

Rant: Polyamory is not a bad word

August 29, 2011 by d20domme

Listen up men of the interwebs…swingers ≠ polyamorous  I have a few profiles floating around online and all of them mention my being in an open relationship. Despite my stating its variance to swinging the young (and sometimes much too old), dense men writing me don’t seem to understand the distinct differences. So it is … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Rants, Thoughts Tagged: dating, poly, polyamory, rant, relationships, swinging

In his words…

April 11, 2011 by d20domme

“Did you bring what I asked?” Mistress asked me Sunday night. I didn’t exactly have the words to tell her that I had gone through my house and bagged all of my male underwear and put them in a shopping bag per her instructions. So I simply handed the bag over to her.“Yes, Miss.” “Good,” … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Contributions, Femdom Tagged: cum eating, dating, FemDom, male submission, orgasm, panties, perspective, role reversal, roommate, writer sub

Hardwired for hardware

March 2, 2011 by d20domme

Years ago I had a very unique and private photography job. I trekked into Washington, DC to an old row house just on the outskirts of the city. A significantly older woman than I was expecting answered. When she saw me she greeted me in but also expressed that I was much younger than she … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: affection, bdsm, D/s, dating, fantasy, relationships, submission, thinking, web cam

My electric mist

February 9, 2011 by d20domme

Uninspired and a tad fed up, that’s how I’ve been feeling lately. Some readers have inquired to what happened to some of the subs I’ve mentioned last year. sweet sub all but disappeared from the map. He had some personal issues he was attending to and I haven’t really heard anything from him since. Mr. … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: advice, apathetic, bdsm, Congressman, dating, failure, lemons, nurse sub, quiet sub, rant, sweet sub

A voter’s view

January 3, 2011 by d20domme

“You look gay in that suit. Do you like to suck cock Congressman?” I asked him in a low tone.  He didn’t look “gay” in his suit, I just wanted to watch the effect it had on him and smirked as his cheeks reddened. He sheepishly shook his head from side to side. This made … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: agreement, bdsm, Congressman, dating, discretion, heels, hotel, submission

Getting to know you

October 19, 2010 by d20domme

With a little under two weeks left for my sub-hunt things have started to pick up a bit. I am definitely interacting with more submissives on and offline than ever before. Is it wrong to feel fucking womanly knowing I am chatting with at least seven twelve fourteen different potentials? All this exploration now has … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: affection, boundaries, dating, friends, nurse sub, objectification, play, questions, thinking, vanilla
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