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Fade into the background

September 5, 2024 by d20domme

i had just finished getting ready for bed when Mistress came into the room and asked me if i had enough energy to have some fun.  Even if i was much more tired than i was, the answer would have still been an automatic and enthusiastic “Yes!” “Good” Mistress said “A deal has been struck … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal Tagged: bdsm, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, male submission, pet, polyandry, puppy, queening, slave, threesome

I am my own Primary

April 5, 2024 by d20domme

Hierarchy. Reading the simple noun alone might elicit a physical and automatic reaction. Did it for you? For some people, the hatred for hierarchy runs deep. Despite that, we see hierarchies play out every day in our vanilla lives. Hierarchies often play a part to determine an individual’s or group’s status, privilege, and access to … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Relationships Tagged: bdsm, D/s, ENM, female domination, FemDom, hierarchy, polyamory, polyandry, relationships

Down the primrose path…

August 5, 2023 by d20domme

Mommies don’t cry.Mommies don’t cry.Mommies don’t… I couldn’t even finish my own self soothing mantra as I held back tears. I glanced at myself in the visor mirror between watching the busy highway. ‘I’m going to lose my Mommy‘ I kept hearing his voice say on repeat in my head. I knew I would have … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal Tagged: break-up, choosing, communication, dating, decisions, emotions, heartbroken, life, love, MDlb, MonoPoly, poly, polyamory, polyandry, relationship, self-reflection, The Gardner

Guest of What Excites Us!: Hypnoplay

April 5, 2023 by d20domme

Some of my favorite kind of podcasts to chat on, are the ones where there is no one topic, the training wheels are off and you and the host are taking each other for a kinky-test drive out into the open audible world. That’s what chatting with Gwyn Issacs of the What Excites Us! was … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: 24/7, D/s, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, fetishes, lifestyle, male submission, opinion, Podcasts, poly, polyamory, polyandry, Q&A, slave, thoughts, what excites us

Rant: Poly =/= ‘Open for business’

February 7, 2022 by d20domme

Poly people, sit down, *whew*, let’s have a chat. Oh wait, let me dial the ENM participants in as well, they’ll want to hear this. Yes, I know they’re new around here but this is for them too. Everyone here? Great, get comfortable, but not too comfortable, as that seems to be part of the … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Rants, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: community, ENM, ethical non monogamy, FemDom, poly, polyamory, polyandry, rant, relationships, thinking

I was raised as an only Queen

September 5, 2020 by d20domme

I was raised essentially as an only child in mindset and environment. I have been wanting to write about this a lot more lately but haven’t been sure on where to start. The past few years have been extremely eye-opening, self aware and hopefully filled with opportunities to grow both inside and outside of the … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: emotions, female led relationship, flr, lifestyle, MonoPoly, poly, polyamory, polyandry, relationships

Guest of Talkin’ Taboo: Truths of A Femdom

June 15, 2019 by d20domme

A while ago, I was a guest of Sadie’s on her podcast Talkin’ Taboo. We had a lovely chat (as well as a her bio-pup sneaking in!) about a lot of the truths I live with as the type of Femdom I am. We chatted about… Listen to our convo here and give it a listen!

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: community, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, fetishes, opinion, plus size, PoC, Podcasts, polyamory, polyandry, Sadie, self awareness, talkin taboo, thoughts

Guest of Erotic Awakening: Polyandry 101

March 21, 2019 by d20domme

Last month I took a few minutes to speak with Dan an Dawn of Erotic Awakening and Beyond The Love. They’re the original big thinkers behind the annual 3-day polyamory convention in Columbus, Ohio. Check it out if you are curious or identify as polyamorous for “Education, workshops, social activities, meeting other polyamory people and more”. In 2017 … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: beyond the love, communication, dan, dawn, discussion, erotic awakening, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, MonoPoly, Podcasts, poly, polyamory, polyandry, relationships, self awareness, thoughts

Beat around the bush

July 18, 2017 by d20domme

I met a gardener and he’s the first person I’ve found who can cure my black thumb. The Gardener came into my life last year by way of a crossdresser’s munch. Puppy and I attended and weren’t expecting much. But, I did talk with The Gardener most of the evening. He invited the two of … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: cross dress, dating, female led relationship, meeting new people, MonoPoly, poly, polyandry, The Gardner
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