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To live is to change, is to grow

January 5, 2022 by d20domme

It’s a new year and as we all like to pretend it’s time for change. Real change this time, right?Whether you like it or not, it is as Heraclitus said, ‘Nothing is permanent except change.’ It’s inevitable. So why do we hate it so much or fight it when it’s presented to us? Simply put, … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, D/s, female led relationship, FemDom, kink, male submission, polyamory, relationships, slave, thinking

Novices need not apply

December 5, 2021 by d20domme

Well, this is my personal decree that I am, as of this year, 100% done playing with newbies in the kink community. I know that sounds harsh and elitist but, that’s my preference now. Blame stupid boys for being stupid. After years and years of painstakingly meeting new submissives, coddling cucks, cultivating what appears to … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Femdom, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, ego, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, male submission, relationships, self awareness, thinking, vanilla

Guest of What Women and Other Wonderful Humans Want

October 28, 2021 by d20domme

This month I sat down and chatted with some amazing humans by the name of Miss Melody Pond and HiThereCatsuit a.k.a. Jon, for a feature on What Women and Other Wonderful Humans Want. A few lightning rounds of kinky questions before we dove in and discussed…. Listen to us geek out on kink and more … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: community, dating kinky, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, fetishes, geeks, lifestyle, nerds, nookie notes, opinion, Podcasts, Q&A, thoughts, what women and other wonderful humans want

Locktober: Logistics

October 1, 2021 by d20domme

Have you missed me? Have you survived? Thrived? Barely both? Hang in there, things are looking up in this crazy new world of ours. While I am still taking a much needed break from fulltime kink, I can’t resist the subby siren call of Locktober. As you all know, Locktober is the most wonderful time … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom Tagged: bdsm, chastity, female domination, FemDom, Locktober, male chastity, male submission

Rant: The sometimes sub

October 6, 2020 by d20domme

When I make my mind up it’s hard to change. Not impossible but you will have your work cut out for you. With that in mind, when I decided I wanted a submissive in my life, wanted a life of D/s, and decided I was going to give this my all, well, it was and … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Rants, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, expectations, fantasy, FemDom, flr, rant, reality, submission, submissives

Personal power transfer

August 5, 2020 by d20domme

I took his power and now I was the one complaining. I’ll admit when Puppy and I first met, we both entered into a respective BDSM frenzy; his submissive, mine dominant. We were communicating with each other nearly 24/7, save for some sleeping hours we wedged in between. We moved very fast by all standards … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, FemDom, intentions, leadership, love, power exchange, relationships, submission

Guest of Kinky Cocktail Hour: A POC Femdom Journey

June 20, 2020 by d20domme

I had the pleasure of having a virtual drink and chat with the duo Lady Petra and SafferMaster of Kinky Cocktail Hour while they sipped a very delicious looking Mojito. They claim I am the busiest Domme in the Universe but they clearly don’t know how many, many naps I take in between everything haha. … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: community, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, kinky cocktail hour, lifestyle, opinion, Podcasts, Q&A, self awareness, thoughts

Guest of Aunt Suzie’s Sex-Cast: Deeper Into Femdom

April 20, 2020 by d20domme

I hung out with the fabulous Aunt Suzie and her producer Ashlen this month. This was a live interview with questions from listeners about Femdomming, and BDSM lifestyles or just about anything you can think of when it comes to being in the BDSM Community. We chatted about kink lifestyle, hottest moments, and strangest and … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: aunt suzie, community, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, fetishes, lifestyle, opinion, Podcasts, polyamory, Q&A, self awareness, thoughts

It’s a break, not broken

November 22, 2019 by d20domme

I look around the room and wonder… Does anyone in here know what a true break from this all means? It’s an ironic observation as I, myself, stand up on a stage in front of nearly 100 fellow kinksters, ready to speak on a kinky topic. I feel like a fraud whenever this happens (as … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Femdom, Personal Journal Tagged: breaktime, FemDom, FMTM, journal, keep calm, personal, self-care, self-reflection, top drop
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