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The light side of dark age play

April 19, 2019 by d20domme

A Contribution Writing for Kink Weekly Did reading that title send a little shiver down your spine? It use to do the same for me too. When I first entered the scene many years ago (but who’s counting!), Age play wasn’t really ‘in’. It wasn’t a kink people were talking about. There were no spaces … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Contributions Tagged: acceptance, age play, bdsm, communication, community, dark age play, female led relationship, fetishes, kink weekly, kinks, MD/lb, Mommy, opinion, self awareness, taboo

Guest of Erotic Awakening: Polyandry 101

March 21, 2019 by d20domme

Last month I took a few minutes to speak with Dan an Dawn of Erotic Awakening and Beyond The Love. They’re the original big thinkers behind the annual 3-day polyamory convention in Columbus, Ohio. Check it out if you are curious or identify as polyamorous for “Education, workshops, social activities, meeting other polyamory people and more”. In 2017 … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: beyond the love, communication, dan, dawn, discussion, erotic awakening, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, MonoPoly, Podcasts, poly, polyamory, polyandry, relationships, self awareness, thoughts

Sissy Husband: To have and to hold

July 22, 2018 by Her puppy

With only hours left until my wedding, I ask myself… What does being a sissy husband mean to me? To me it means so much. It is a lifestyle choice that my Mistress and I are both entering and something that will remain with us, for potentially the rest of our lives. It isn’t something … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Contributions Tagged: 24/7, agreement, beginning, communication, female led relationship, FemDom, flr, male submission, marriage, puppy, sissification, sissy

I assaulted someone I love

June 1, 2018 by d20domme

My puppy is back and it’s been an adjustment for us both. I couldn’t help but chuckle softly as I was watched him express genuine over-the-top anger at the video game he was currently playing as he cursed and threw down the controller. It made me laugh until I caught myself mid thought, ‘He needs … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: 24/7, aggression, anger, apologies, arguments, boundaries, challenges, communication, consent, domestic violence, female led relationship, self awareness, thinking, violation

Counting the days

April 5, 2018 by d20domme

In the next week or so I will be returning home and I will be reunited with my fiance and my Mistress. I spent all of last year living with her, thousands of miles from home, being trained and moulded to be the best submissive I could be. The list of training topics we covered … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: 24/7, female led relationship, ldr, long distance, love, puppy, relationship, thinking

Beat around the bush

July 18, 2017 by d20domme

I met a gardener and he’s the first person I’ve found who can cure my black thumb. The Gardener came into my life last year by way of a crossdresser’s munch. Puppy and I attended and weren’t expecting much. But, I did talk with The Gardener most of the evening. He invited the two of … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: cross dress, dating, female led relationship, meeting new people, MonoPoly, poly, polyandry, The Gardner

A state of flux

November 17, 2016 by d20domme

These were pictures of someone not even remotely like me. A message indicating that a transaction had taken place. I didn’t want to panic, I just wanted answers. I’ve heard that if you tell a lie once all your truths become questionable. This to me sounds reasonable. When we lie, we are stealing social commodity … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: 24/7, acceptance, cheating, female led relationship, FemDom, forgiveness, male submission, puppy, relationships, thinking

Femdom: Not all it’s pegged up to be

August 29, 2015 by d20domme

I am a FemDom. I am a female dominant who controls the relationships I am in through the use of power exchange and an overall power dynamic. This is my public service announcement to say something that has really irritated me for quite some time. FEMDOM ≠ Strap-on play! It doesn’t equal pegging, anal play, … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Femdom, Thoughts Tagged: anal play, anal sex, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, pegging, rant, strap-on, thinking

I make the rules

June 18, 2015 by d20domme

After my last entry I took some time with the boy to talk about where we were going and where we had been with our kinky interactions for the past couple of years. I expected a certain level of protocol and discipline that I knew he wasn’t delivering and wasn’t entirely sure he was capable … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal Tagged: bdsm, female led relationship, flr, male submission, power exchange, relationships, self-reflection, submission, wlr
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