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Measuring up for Mistress

November 17, 2015 by d20domme

He can’t satisfy me and that’s okay…well at least not with his cock. It’s been no secret that since I became sexually active in my teens that I always craved bigger and ‘better’ cock. At first it started innocently enough (that’s how I like to remember it anyway) and I just loved big dicks. I … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Femdom Tagged: acceptance, bad jokes, big penis, female domination, FemDom, guidelines, male submission, penis, rant, small penis

The domesticated Domme

October 31, 2015 by d20domme

The role of ‘Susie Homemaker’ has never appealed to me. I hate dishes.I loathe ironing.And window washing?! Death by watching paint dry please! But I’ve found I love vacuuming, it’s soothing. Dusting makes it easy for me to be excited by the visible progress and wiping the kitchen down creates a aura of “win” within … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: affection, bdsm, domination, female domination, FemDom, male submission, power exchange, submission, travel

More than puppy love

October 16, 2015 by d20domme

I’ve written and rewritten this entry about my meeting with my puppy from overseas but nothing has felt right. Nothing has been able to convey the sheer level of connection that we experienced in his short time here. I can only describe it as serendipity. We met online by chance. We live thousands miles apart … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: affection, female domination, FemDom, ldr, long distance, love, male submission, meeting new people, pet play, submission

40 Days and 40 Nights

September 23, 2015 by Her puppy

“What’s the longest you’ve ever gone without cumming?”  “Erm, it was 8 days Mistress.” I said nervously into the phone.  ‘Hahahahahaha!” She laughed. “Oh puppy, we will do better”  This was one of the first questions Mistress asked me when she first took me under her care, and placed me in her 126 Day Training … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: agreement, bdsm, challenges, chastity, female domination, FemDom, long distance, male submission, puppy, submissives

Breaking the habit

September 17, 2015 by d20domme

“I want to do the most disgusting fucked up shit with you,” he said with a sigh into the telephone. I squeezed my eyes tightly, gripping my own phone and tried to stop the flash of images running through my mind: Taking him over my knee and spanking him until he cried and then as … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, Collarme, Collarspace, female domination, FemDom, long distance, pet play

Femdom: Not all it’s pegged up to be

August 29, 2015 by d20domme

I am a FemDom. I am a female dominant who controls the relationships I am in through the use of power exchange and an overall power dynamic. This is my public service announcement to say something that has really irritated me for quite some time. FEMDOM ≠ Strap-on play! It doesn’t equal pegging, anal play, … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Femdom, Thoughts Tagged: anal play, anal sex, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, pegging, rant, strap-on, thinking

A ‘Weekend Reunion’

July 21, 2015 by d20domme

It was a welcome change of pace: My first ever big kink event outside of a dungeon and I was surrounded by a large number of kinksters who I identified with. I’m certainly not one who prefers to be surrounded only by people who share the same skin color as me, but I do find … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: acceptance, bdsm, dungeon, female domination, FemDom, male submission, photography, PoC, squashing, Weekend Reunion

When nothing goes right…go left?

May 4, 2015 by d20domme

I’m in a BDSM slump. I’ve been in them before but they usually fix themselves before long. They’ve not lasted for a year or more, yet here I am. There was a time long ago in my early scene years where I thought I liked training submissives. I was good at it. It was a … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, female domination, FemDom, male submission, motivation, slump, thinking, training

It ain’t easy being kinky

April 29, 2014 by d20domme

I’m having a mid-kink identity crisis. I’ve come to notice it’s not as easy as, “I think therefore I am” within the kink community or kinky mindset. Over the years I’ve evolved into my own image of what I want to embody as kink. There are certain activities I won’t engage in and others I … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Thoughts Tagged: acceptance, bdsm, community, female domination, FemDom, ramblings, thinking
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