The kink and BDSM community is an effervescent, diverse space where individuals explore their fantasies, desires, and boundaries. I’ve learned after two decades within the community what’s really important. At the heart of this exploration are two fundamental principles: consent and privacy. These principles not only ensure the safety and well-being of participants but also foster … [Tell me more…]
I won’t bore you with the usual caution to not trust just anyone, no matter the size of their toybag. I will, however, share with you some things I’ve cultivated and strived for over the years to become what I consider, a Femdom of respectable caliber. It varies greatly when we get to the specific … [Tell me more…]
My puppy is back and it’s been an adjustment for us both. I couldn’t help but chuckle softly as I was watched him express genuine over-the-top anger at the video game he was currently playing as he cursed and threw down the controller. It made me laugh until I caught myself mid thought, ‘He needs … [Tell me more…]
I never like to get on my high horse and it’s part of the reason I’ve kept quiet up until now but silent I can no longer be. This is a growing issue not only in my own local community but across the whole of BDSM communities alike. It’s an issue that is increasingly giving … [Tell me more…]
Seriously. I’m not trying to be hateful, just honest. I’ve had the pleasure (mostly) of being able to be a part of local BDSM communities around the world. Some have run like well oiled machines, friendly faces and helping hands all around. Others have been run like the classroom of a preschool teacher’s worst nightmare. … [Tell me more…]
WHORE. The word was marked across my chest like a badge of honor instead of the negative insult it can sometimes be seen as. I knew that night I was going to be treated like Mistress’s whore. After a day of kinky shopping, “plans” as she likes to call them had been placed in motion. … [Tell me more…]