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Locktober: Logistics

October 1, 2021 by d20domme

Have you missed me? Have you survived? Thrived? Barely both? Hang in there, things are looking up in this crazy new world of ours. While I am still taking a much needed break from fulltime kink, I can’t resist the subby siren call of Locktober. As you all know, Locktober is the most wonderful time … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom Tagged: bdsm, chastity, female domination, FemDom, Locktober, male chastity, male submission

Rant: The sometimes sub

October 6, 2020 by d20domme

When I make my mind up it’s hard to change. Not impossible but you will have your work cut out for you. With that in mind, when I decided I wanted a submissive in my life, wanted a life of D/s, and decided I was going to give this my all, well, it was and … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Rants, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, expectations, fantasy, FemDom, flr, rant, reality, submission, submissives

Personal power transfer

August 5, 2020 by d20domme

I took his power and now I was the one complaining. I’ll admit when Puppy and I first met, we both entered into a respective BDSM frenzy; his submissive, mine dominant. We were communicating with each other nearly 24/7, save for some sleeping hours we wedged in between. We moved very fast by all standards … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, FemDom, intentions, leadership, love, power exchange, relationships, submission

Rant: Fight for your community

April 5, 2020 by d20domme

Long before the virus broke fully out, I had my own ideas about social gatherings, touching, close quarter playing and more. To be honest, I don’t really like being in an enclosed space with sweaty people and body fluids. Beyond my general dislike for my own sweat, let alone someone else’s, I’ve witnessed quite a … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Rants Tagged: bdsm, community, dangerous, pandemic, predators, rant, support, thoughts

No, I won’t break you

March 5, 2020 by d20domme

“Mistress, please just break me down.”“I’ll be anything you want.”“Remind me that I am nothing.” These are all “sexy phrases” I’m assuming submissives have heard or seen in porn or worse? I say assume because for me, phrases like these immediately take me out of my dominant headspace and replaces it with a big “huh?!”. … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Contributions, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, domination, empowerment, power exchange, self awareness, self love, self-care, submission

The caliber of a Fem(dom)

October 27, 2019 by d20domme

I won’t bore you with the usual caution to not trust just anyone, no matter the size of their toybag. I will, however, share with you some things I’ve cultivated and strived for over the years to become what I consider, a Femdom of respectable caliber. It varies greatly when we get to the specific … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Femdom Tagged: bdsm, consent, domination, FemDom, newbie, submission, thoughts

Less labels more talking

August 26, 2019 by d20domme

As humans we have an innate obsession with placing labels on everything, including ourselves. Labels help give people a false sense of order and a way to separate things. However, we aren’t things; we’re people first and heavily using labels to categorize people isn’t fair. It takes away the depth and complexity each of us … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, boundaries, communication, community, interpersonal, labels, nlp, opinion, respect, self awareness, social, thoughts, words

Mommy’s good boy

July 22, 2019 by d20domme

When I entered the room, it was just as I had requested: panties and stockings laid out on the bed. I turned to look at him standing in the doorway, still dressed from the day. He was trying not to blush, his deep brown eyes pleading in my direction. I curled my finger up and … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: age play, bdsm, dark age play, female domination, feminization, forced orgasm, kink weekly, little play, MDlb, Mommy, play, role play

It’s my privacy and I want it now!

June 15, 2019 by d20domme

A Contribution Writing For Kink Weekly I grab him by his short locks one handful at a time chiding him as I grind up against him. It’s just me, him, and a hard wooden, freshly polished St. Andrew’s cross. I know there’s a mixture of pleasure and pain as I force him against the rigid … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, communication, female domination, FemDom, kink weekly, kinkster, mentor, presenter, privacy, public speaking, respect, safety
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