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40 Days and 40 Nights

September 23, 2015 by Her puppy

“What’s the longest you’ve ever gone without cumming?”  “Erm, it was 8 days Mistress.” I said nervously into the phone.  ‘Hahahahahaha!” She laughed. “Oh puppy, we will do better”  This was one of the first questions Mistress asked me when she first took me under her care, and placed me in her 126 Day Training … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: agreement, bdsm, challenges, chastity, female domination, FemDom, long distance, male submission, puppy, submissives

Breaking the habit

September 17, 2015 by d20domme

“I want to do the most disgusting fucked up shit with you,” he said with a sigh into the telephone. I squeezed my eyes tightly, gripping my own phone and tried to stop the flash of images running through my mind: Taking him over my knee and spanking him until he cried and then as … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, Collarme, Collarspace, female domination, FemDom, long distance, pet play

Femdom: Not all it’s pegged up to be

August 29, 2015 by d20domme

I am a FemDom. I am a female dominant who controls the relationships I am in through the use of power exchange and an overall power dynamic. This is my public service announcement to say something that has really irritated me for quite some time. FEMDOM ≠ Strap-on play! It doesn’t equal pegging, anal play, … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Femdom, Thoughts Tagged: anal play, anal sex, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, pegging, rant, strap-on, thinking

A ‘Weekend Reunion’

July 21, 2015 by d20domme

It was a welcome change of pace: My first ever big kink event outside of a dungeon and I was surrounded by a large number of kinksters who I identified with. I’m certainly not one who prefers to be surrounded only by people who share the same skin color as me, but I do find … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: acceptance, bdsm, dungeon, female domination, FemDom, male submission, photography, PoC, squashing, Weekend Reunion

I make the rules

June 18, 2015 by d20domme

After my last entry I took some time with the boy to talk about where we were going and where we had been with our kinky interactions for the past couple of years. I expected a certain level of protocol and discipline that I knew he wasn’t delivering and wasn’t entirely sure he was capable … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal Tagged: bdsm, female led relationship, flr, male submission, power exchange, relationships, self-reflection, submission, wlr

When nothing goes right…go left?

May 4, 2015 by d20domme

I’m in a BDSM slump. I’ve been in them before but they usually fix themselves before long. They’ve not lasted for a year or more, yet here I am. There was a time long ago in my early scene years where I thought I liked training submissives. I was good at it. It was a … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, female domination, FemDom, male submission, motivation, slump, thinking, training

Aftercare: Not just an afterthought

January 15, 2015 by d20domme

I don’t usually make any big mistakes as a dominant, that’s not to say I still don’t have  areas to improve in, I just mean I’m usually on top (no pun intended) of things I do. A couple of weeks ago the boy, who in this new year shall be referred to as Locs, attended a … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Relationships Tagged: Aftercare, bdsm, bondage, protocol, questions, relationships, rope, shibari

It ain’t easy being kinky

April 29, 2014 by d20domme

I’m having a mid-kink identity crisis. I’ve come to notice it’s not as easy as, “I think therefore I am” within the kink community or kinky mindset. Over the years I’ve evolved into my own image of what I want to embody as kink. There are certain activities I won’t engage in and others I … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Thoughts Tagged: acceptance, bdsm, community, female domination, FemDom, ramblings, thinking

Meet the ‘Ice Queen’

March 3, 2014 by d20domme

Before we began, she gave me a simple instruction. “Until I say otherwise, you are not to make a sound.” I nodded in agreement. As I stood there, naked aside from the purple see-through underwear, she began to work the rope around my torso. I didn’t know what she had in store for me, yet I couldn’t help getting erect at … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal Tagged: ass worship, assplay, bdsm, bondage, female domination, obedience, objectification, outdoor play, tease and denial
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